lovers Posted July 8, 2014 Posted July 8, 2014 (edited) Brief summary we broke up. I broke up with her but she had the final say since I wanted her back and she started dating this other guy. its been 3 years with me mostly ignoring her and her reaching out, the last year hardly any contact, she used to stalk me alot, me with her as well. Anyways last day of school before I grad after months without talking to her she says "can we meet up I didn't study for this test and was wondering if we can study together." I told her it wouldn't be a good idea but I can help her if she needs me through text. Now I see it as her trying to reach out to me. She uses the I need help with school tactic with me a couple of times cause I give and respond to her. I ignore her on anything else. Months has passed and she sends me a message through skype saying did you message me? I told her "I did? what did I write." With no response, until I wrote her name with a question mark and she wrote yes? I feel like she just wants me to break my no contact or just wants to hear from me. SHe used to call me with unknown just to hear my voice. She is dating someone, so why play these games. I know I did not message her and I can see she still stalks me with my linkedin. I care about her even till now, but then again I haven't been lucky in the dating department. Been on a dry spell, depressed, and haven't gain traction on where I want to be in my life. I guess a part of me misses the old her since she was a real good gf, but she turned into a monster after break up and thats not someone I want to associate with. I feel like just getting real information from her, no games where when to message blah blah silent treatment blah blah, but rather just see her and be watsup. She can't play games that way. Mainly a rant and I probably won't act on this, but what are your guys thoughts? Edited July 9, 2014 by lovers
acrosstheuniverse Posted July 9, 2014 Posted July 9, 2014 My thoughts are why are you wasting your time on this BS? The interactions you have with this girl are adding no value or meaning to your life. You mention not having gained any traction on where you want to be in your life, why not focus on that instead? Keep this girl blocked and focus on your studies, your career, your friendships. Not in order to tempt her back, but just so that your life is so enjoyable and meaningful you look back and wonder why you ever gave her a second thought.
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