johnsonracer Posted July 8, 2014 Posted July 8, 2014 I don't know why. I shoudnt she did some ****ty stuff to me (never ****ed anyone while we were together) , she would talk to guys behind my back. She would do some really sweet stuff to and I saw her cry multiple times which showed a different side of her she dumped me because she didnt want to commit and ****ed three guys. Then she came running back to me(i was thinking of getting back with her), but i was talking to this girl. When my ex found out she flipped out on me and said some hurtful things that hurt. i called her a worthless cunt and a whore and said thats all she would amount to now i feel horrible i know she could be a ****ty girlfriend but i loved her and miss her the hell do i do? she seemed like she was really wanting to make me and her work
Eagle755 Posted July 8, 2014 Posted July 8, 2014 NC and move on I'd say. The new girl will treat you way better than a girl that has commitment issues and that'll **** 3 other guys right after breaking up. Like that's really ****ed up
redbaron005 Posted July 8, 2014 Posted July 8, 2014 i called her a worthless cunt and a whore and said thats all she would amount to now i feel horrible Ouch. Did you apologize for this? If you haven't, IMO a very brief e-mail apology is warranted. The only thing I don't regret about my breakup was the apology for the insensitive way I acted. Then, after you send it, I would go NC, for you, for at the very minimum 10 months.
Author johnsonracer Posted July 8, 2014 Author Posted July 8, 2014 Ouch. Did you apologize for this? If you haven't, IMO a very brief e-mail apology is warranted. The only thing I don't regret about my breakup was the apology for the insensitive way I acted. Then, after you send it, I would go NC, for you, for at the very minimum 10 months. i feel bad saying but she took shots at me and i lost it she said my dick couldnt satisfy her, she used me for money, im ugly and i need to get my teeth fixed because kissing me was awful
exhausted1 Posted July 9, 2014 Posted July 9, 2014 If you truly feel bad, send a sincere apology and leave it at that. Don't say anything that can draw up a conversation or dialogue. You do not need a response and you should do it without expecting a response. There is a great possibility she may respond. She may apologize as well, or she may retaliate but it doesn't matter. This should be your final goodbye then go NC. Be strong and soldier on.
music_and_poetry Posted July 9, 2014 Posted July 9, 2014 i feel bad saying but she took shots at me and i lost it she said my dick couldnt satisfy her, she used me for money, im ugly and i need to get my teeth fixed because kissing me was awful From how I see it - she said some messed up things too and meant for those words to hurt. You admit you lost it and said words that would hurt her too. As far as I'm concerned she is just as much as fault with her words as you are and the relationship sounds toxic. Up to you if you want to subject yourself to that situation again. I also told someone off who hurt me by leading me on and then trying to blame me when he decided he didn't want a serious relationship. I didn't exactly insult him but I definitely didn't let him get off without hearing a piece of my mind first. I got absolutely no response which either means he knows I'm right or he doesn't care. Hoping for the first one. NC for two weeks now. Haven't heard a peep from him.
NopeNah Posted July 9, 2014 Posted July 9, 2014 I might be an insensitive prick but, you owe her nothing in my opinion. Just go your separate ways.
blindnlost Posted July 9, 2014 Posted July 9, 2014 If she went out and ****ed 3 guys right afterwards... I don't think she deserve an apology... Just walk man...
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