brandon26003 Posted July 8, 2014 Posted July 8, 2014 (edited) A year and a half ago I met this woman. I am 34 and she is 41. She has 4 kids. We slept together back then, and after a few months, didn't talk anymore. She said that she got scared because she was starting to really like me and ran. Fast forward... About a month ago she starts randomly commenting on almost every facebook post...and some were in a flirtatious manner. Then we had some private messages through facebook where she said she wanted to hang at some point. I dismissed her advances because I would go days without hearing from her and I always had to make first contact. Then 2 weeks ago she texts me and wanted me to meet her. I met her for a few drinks and we ended up at my place and had sex again. She would make comments like how she admired me because of how I am with my mom and other random compliments. Then she invited me to an outdoor event where I met 2 of her kids. We talked for a few days after that and am now back to hardly hearing from her. Is she running again? Why would she introduce me to her kids? Just seems like a big game to me. Edited July 8, 2014 by brandon26003
CarrieT Posted July 8, 2014 Posted July 8, 2014 Just seems like a big game to me. If you want her in your life, tell her. If you do not, then block her and move on. Seems like neither of you are really communicating to one another.
babycakees Posted July 8, 2014 Posted July 8, 2014 Communication. You need to ask her what she is looking for. There is no other way of knowing. She may have a very busy life, especially with kids. Ask her.
Author brandon26003 Posted July 8, 2014 Author Posted July 8, 2014 I know that she wants a relationship. She posts on facebook about how she gets in her feelings sometimes about not being in a relationship, but she doesn't need a man. I'm kinda certain that she is interested in a relationship with me because she introduced me to her kids and she has made some jealous type comments on some of my facebook posts. She didn't a year and a half ago. Last time I texted her she said that she was hoping to free up some time soon so that we can hang out.
beach Posted July 9, 2014 Posted July 9, 2014 When a person has you as their top priority they don't go hot and cold that way. Why not date a gal that's more your age with fewer kids ? 1
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