Redhighheelz Posted July 8, 2014 Posted July 8, 2014 Before you got married did you still have passion for your SO? Was your sex life still hot and heavy? Do you still feel this way? Also, how old were you when you married and how long did you date prior?
bwright42tx Posted July 8, 2014 Posted July 8, 2014 Before you got married did you still have passion for your SO? Was your sex life still hot and heavy? Do you still feel this way? Also, how old were you when you married and how long did you date prior? Yes Yes Yes 21, 2 years, been 20 years together, 18 married now.
jackslife Posted July 9, 2014 Posted July 9, 2014 (edited) Before you got married did you still have passion for your SO? Was your sex life still hot and heavy? Do you still feel this way? Also, how old were you when you married and how long did you date prior? Redhighheelz: Interesting questions. I could be wrong but I believe you are asking if the passion one feels for their SO should be there before and after marriage. And if your age and dating time should somehow affect this. I'm guessing you think that the answers should be Yes, yes, yes. But if you, personally answered these questions yourself the answers would be no, no, no. Which means that you have lost the passion for your SO and are doubting whether you should be getting married or not, My personal opinion, if your answers are no, no, no you shouldn't be getting married. Mind you I could be completely wrong and these are just general interest questions. Edited July 9, 2014 by jackslife missing words
learning_slowly Posted July 10, 2014 Posted July 10, 2014 As a man, I have never been with a woman where the passion does not fade after a few years. But maybe that is down to me not getting more inventive? Or is it nature forcing us to create children with others? I think you can reintroduce passion, but it takes a lot of effort. However if you have found love and it is returned, then hopefully you will want to put in the effort? As you get older you realise you need to look at yourself and see if you have a problem. Maybe you can fix your problem and the relationship can thrive. Otherwise, get out so they can meet somebody who doesn't have your baggage.
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