Panatana90 Posted July 8, 2014 Posted July 8, 2014 Nearly a month of NC with my ex-girlfriend of four years who broke up with me. She said she couldn't guarantee she won't contact me at our last meeting. I have been tempted to contact, but want to stick it out with NC. Are they ever "too nervous" to contact and therefore don't?
HelloYoga Posted July 8, 2014 Posted July 8, 2014 Sometimes. One of my exes broke the rule two months after dumped me. He tried to sweet talk me. I was having none of it, but remained friendly.
David87 Posted July 8, 2014 Posted July 8, 2014 Nearly a month of NC with my ex-girlfriend of four years who broke up with me. She said she couldn't guarantee she won't contact me at our last meeting. I have been tempted to contact, but want to stick it out with NC. Are they ever "too nervous" to contact and therefore don't? Yeah sometimes they contact you, but by then is way to late, you already moved on and don't care about them anymore. A month of nc is nothing, will talk when you reach one or two years. 1
Ordinaryday Posted July 8, 2014 Posted July 8, 2014 they may but in most cases it is a let down because most of them who do reach out dont do it to reconcile - they reach out cos they are either feeling guilty and want to know you are 'okay' so their guilt will be eased (and then they will never give you another thought) or they reach out cos they are 100 over you and they assume you are over them as well, so they reach out to 'say hi' and shoot the breeze for 20 minutes, before disappearing from your life again. needless to say it is rarely what you want. 1
Hello201 Posted July 8, 2014 Posted July 8, 2014 my dumper txted me twice last thursday saying i wish i could be friends !!!! i know have adjusted my blocked to block sms as well i havent replied why should i i dont want her in my life
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