Is my boyfriend being a drama queen and dodging responsibility?

[Aedra]

My boyfriend discovered his vehicle registration number is not legally under his name (unusual circumstances, but not his fault) and government workers messed up three time in giving him the forms and procedures to fix it. He finally got the right forms, but it'll take 3-5 weeks to get through and if he drives within that time and was told if he get pulls over he could be put in jail for 6 years under the law. But he has to drive to work and literally has nobody else that can take him. There's also no buses that go to his work (its rather way out in the country)

 

And then out of the blue he blamed it all on me for putting a banana in his bag, which rotted and destroyed all the proper forms and documents he needed to go through the processes more smoothly. I honestly couldn't believe this, what person keeps critical documents like that crunched under their bag anyway? I put the banana in there for his lunch, then blamed his major life disaster on me because of the banana. He got angry saying I should have put it in a proper container. Doesn't make sense to me since my family always put fruit in bags and eat it the next day. He left it in there for like a week forgetting about it and it rotted.

 

Sorry if this seems funny or overblown, but I don't know what the heck I did wrong and he really hurt me. Was it my fault at all or is he dodging responsibility? How should I try to get it into his head that he has really hurt me for supposedly "ruining his life?"

[Smilecharmer]

Yes, he is being a drama queen. Solution, never pack his lunch again.

[Els]

Yup, drama queen.

[Lonely122]

Massive drama queen

[notserene]

Um...how is it your fault if he left the banana in there for a week? I dislike it when people screw up and then try to blame you.

[Always Pondering]

He is embarrassed at his mistake and doesn't want to look ridiculous. So yes, as the others have said, he is being over-dramatic and attempting to throw the blame on someone else.

 

Reading this post brings back memories though! I remember back in Elementary School when I didn't have a lunch box, I put a banana in my backpack in the morning and by the time I opened it to eat lunch, I found that it was mushed all over my homework. Fun times!