Doubtsforever Posted July 8, 2014 Posted July 8, 2014 Do you guys appreciate intelligence, or find it annoying? Do you only go after looks?
Potz4prez Posted July 8, 2014 Posted July 8, 2014 Every guy is different. If he's intelligent with normal self esteem, he'll find intelligence attractive.
SammySammy Posted July 8, 2014 Posted July 8, 2014 We're all different and are attracted to different things. Personally, I wouldn't date a woman that was not smart. I've heard other men say they prefer dumb women. It's probably best to find somebody who is compatible with you and not worry about what other men think.
babycakees Posted July 8, 2014 Posted July 8, 2014 Any man that doesn't like smart women is not a man you should want to date.
MissBee Posted July 8, 2014 Posted July 8, 2014 There is no one answer. Different men look for different things. Some men only care about looks, other men are more mature and well-rounded and require more than a pretty face and a hot body to keep their interest. Don't try to find out what some phantom "men" like. Find out what you like and need in a man and worry about identifying that. That's what I do. I know who I am and what I have to offer and a man likes it or doesn't but I don't really worry about appealing to all men. I focus on finding men who have the qualities I like and want in a R and if they find that I fit their bill too, then it's a match!
Griesfootball Posted July 8, 2014 Posted July 8, 2014 I look for someone I find attractive. The things I find attractive varies but it has nothing to do with looks more so attractiveness to how one may dress or express their style, how they carry themselves their careers/goals, family life, hobbies and all that stuff that comes with finding what's in common with a woman
InnocentMan Posted July 8, 2014 Posted July 8, 2014 Most of us just take what we can get. Sometimes they're pretty, sometimes intelligent, but mostly we're just happy if they don't suddenly reveal a hidden personality disorder. As an aside, a quality man is much more likely to be with a dumb looker, than a clever monster. Somewhere in the middle is enough for most of us.
usaims Posted July 8, 2014 Posted July 8, 2014 She doesn't have to be Cindy Crawford but I love the woman's butt -- especially when it's curvy. If the butt looks good, then I'll pay attention to her personality. We are men, we are very visual -- some guys like big boobs, some like big ole butts or even skinny butts -- but we need the visual -- it's like a pilot light on a gas stove. If it is there, then the fire will get bigger and bigger by turning the knob. I hope you understand my analogy. I think girls are different -- they look for a emotional connection first -- I guess the emotional connection is their pilot light. correct me if I am wrong ladies.
jay1983 Posted July 8, 2014 Posted July 8, 2014 I'll speak for myself. A woman who's kinda cute and in decent shape. Doesn't have to hold a degree, but know how to put a sentence together and have some intellect. Needs to have some interests. I don't care what they are, they could knitting or painting, anything other than reality TV. Doesn't do drugs, comes from a decent family and is mentally healthy. That right there, I can't seem to get.
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