skittlez Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 I am 25 y/o and my bf is 28. I have a degree in criminal justice, he has a ged (which is fine). I have so many goals and he told me in the beginning he wants to work and he wants to do so much but he hasnt worked at all in 7 years. He was in and out of jail for selling drugs and now he is still selling drugs 4 years and our 2 y/o child later. He likes the fast money and doesnt want to stop until he is rich. Literally when i ask him what his goals are, he tells me to get rich. And when i ask him how he plans on soing it, he says he is gonna sell dope his whole life if thats what it takes. He smokes weed everyday and he always wants sex but he does nothing to deserve it. He recently told me he was going to find a job so that he can retire in 10 years but he was STILL going to sell drugs and pay people under the table so he doesnt have to be there all the time. I am so tired and his thought process is so chilsish. I feel lije i deservw better but i want my son to have both of his parents. He is a great father. He was just brought up the wrong way. Should i break up or should i try to stick it out?? Idk what to do!
soccerrprp Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 BREAK UP! What is going on with some of you ladies!!?!?!?! You remained in a relationship with a drug dealer/user who made little or no effort to work! You put your innocent child in jeopardy by remaining in this relationship!?!?!? His thought process goes far beyond childish! Dangerous, criminal, immoral, irresponsible, etc. He actively engages in behavior that may have or certainly has destroyed other people's lives! How does this make him a "great" father?????? And stop using his up-bringing as an excuse for his behavior. He CHOSE this path in life and came right out to tell you that he will not stop! 1
d0nnivain Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 If you want a job in law enforcement get away from him. If they even smell association with a known criminal you can kiss your job prospects goodbye. 2
beach Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 Degree in criminal justice? You should be reporting his illegal activities and allow him to suffer his own consequences. He's a drug dealer! His selling is participating in killing people. Go to the police.
meeji Posted July 8, 2014 Posted July 8, 2014 You child shouldn't be in that environment either... A extreme situation would be that his customers are coming to your house and if he gets busted there you are at risk of having your child taken away from you. 8 years...?
Griesfootball Posted July 8, 2014 Posted July 8, 2014 Weed is for those teenagers who don't know any better but this guy needs to grow up at age 28 and he smokes weed. I'm a guy but I would be out if I was you, that's not how the man of the house should act
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