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so me and my girlfriend broke up and this girl i know and her boyfried broke up

 

we started hanging out for about two weeks and started ****ing. she would make it a point that we were just friends but would say stuff like "i missed you" or "you're really cute" and stuff lke that

 

last night she dropped a bomb

 

this was our conversation

 

her: im getting back with jeff. please dont hate me

 

me: lol ok

 

her: why are you laughing

 

me: why are you getting back with him when he cheated?

 

her: i love him what am i suppose to do

 

(thi spoint i didnt reply, i was at a cook out with family, 5 hours later she texted me)

 

her: so not going to talk to me now?

 

me: what am i supposed to say

 

her: we were just friends, i tell you that and you wont talk

 

me: i just think its stupid to get back with him

 

her: i dont see why it matters

 

me: your right it dont ttyl

 

today she came to my house and said she was upset i was being a jerk. i told her i wasnt. i told her you broke up with him for a reason and you also found out he cheated on you. why take him back

 

she said i dont know and that we could still hang out

 

my friend who was at my house told her "you know you sort of hurt his felings right? he liked you and you baically told him your ex is better"

 

i dont know whats going on

 

what should i do

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You should sit back & watch the train wreck. As soon as he finds out she was with you during the break up even though he cheated he's going to get all indignant & she's going to get hurt all over again. Pick up the pieces at your own risk.

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I wouldn't communicate further.

 

 

Yes, she hurt you - the fact that she would handle it like this is terrible on her part.

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she didnt really hurt me, i just thought she was starting to feel something

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pull away from her

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Move on. You deserve better. She's playing you like a violin.

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Stop talking to her and find someone else. Hopefully you'll find someone else and she'll finds out about that. Use your the same oh well type of tone if she questions you.

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