Kermit76 Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 (edited) Not going to re-hash my BU, but its been 10 months since intial BU. My ex re-entered my life a month ago and made a third exit out of my life after sleeping with me. To be honest it feels I'm going thru the break up all over again. My fault I know. I made the decision to reunite with her. But I have been back to NC for the last month and plan on staying there. NC from her. Question is it normal to still feel sad and depressed at this time? I have been seeing a social worker on and off and have a history of depression. Debating to go on medication, but really don't think its all BU related. Have financial and career setbacks, but I think I am at a crossroads in life which is also making me depressed. Just want this feeling to go away. Really trying hard to move on but after 10 months (a two year relationship) I thought I be at a better place. I know I should start dating but feel I need to be in a better place to do that. Have had a few intimate encounters but they have meant nothing and I didn't feel any better after it. Edited July 7, 2014 by Kermit76
mangetout Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 You had your hopes dashed once again so I am not surprised you still feel sad. It's good that you are planning to stay NC because it's better for you move on. My fourth attempt with my ex ended last week and I am exhausted by it all. I am far from ready to start a new relationship. I actual look forward to spending some time with me...till I feel better within myself. I think you need to do the same rather than go dating. You will just compare them to your ex
Author Kermit76 Posted July 7, 2014 Author Posted July 7, 2014 (edited) That's the plan this summer. To find myself again. Not ready for a new relationship. Thanks for the advice. It has been emotionally exhausting and really didn't realize what it was doing to my body (or health) till I accepted it was over. And now trying to move on. Edited July 7, 2014 by Kermit76
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