Elle1975 Posted July 8, 2014 Posted July 8, 2014 To me that means "I miss having sex" No where in the email he speaks of me on a level of missing. One of my exes who still loved me actually said "I still love you", not "I miss your face" or w/e 1
aprilisi Posted July 8, 2014 Posted July 8, 2014 I love your response! I'm gonna steal it next time I get that line.
babycakees Posted July 8, 2014 Posted July 8, 2014 I would have replied with 'OK, thanks. Who is this?'. THIS RIGHT HERE!! Love love love it!! Absolutely perfect!
Author Omei Posted July 8, 2014 Author Posted July 8, 2014 It would have been cool if I could of said who is this part but again his name being in the email it would been obvious that I was being hurtful and I really wanted to give off the feel that I was fine without him.
organizedchaos Posted July 8, 2014 Posted July 8, 2014 It would have been cool if I could of said who is this part but again his name being in the email it would been obvious that I was being hurtful and I really wanted to give off the feel that I was fine without him. Your response was perfect as stated.
Author Omei Posted July 8, 2014 Author Posted July 8, 2014 The high of feeling in power has settled now im mostly just annoyed he contacted me because I wasn't thinking about him at all now ive spend half the day doing so, and im especially irritated that all he cared to relay to me was sexual and that I had asked him to not contact me ever unless it was to reconcile (wanna stay single) when we broke up because I had a extremely hard time accepting the loss at the time. Disrespecting my wishes.
mtnbiker3000 Posted July 8, 2014 Posted July 8, 2014 Don't you wish you had blocked him completely so you would have never had this interaction? Or at least not responded to him???
David87 Posted July 8, 2014 Posted July 8, 2014 The high of feeling in power has settled now im mostly just annoyed he contacted me because I wasn't thinking about him at all now ive spend half the day doing so, and im especially irritated that all he cared to relay to me was sexual and that I had asked him to not contact me ever unless it was to reconcile (wanna stay single) when we broke up because I had a extremely hard time accepting the loss at the time. Disrespecting my wishes. Well you got your ego boost, how about you block his number now?
Author Omei Posted July 8, 2014 Author Posted July 8, 2014 Don't you wish you had blocked him completely so you would have never had this interaction? Or at least not responded to him??? No I feel fine im still glad I got my chance to show him im okay without him around. He isn't on any social media I don't know his number or would even recognize it, it was through email I have hotmail and no idea how to block a hotmail besides move to trash bins etc im not really worried about it.
Leigh 87 Posted July 8, 2014 Posted July 8, 2014 Haha! The DAY I met my current boyfriend, the ex who scr ew ed me over contacted me. THE DAY I meet someone knew who I really liked. Turns out he just wanted sex. Obviously. I then went on facebook to see if he had it (he told me he didn't when we dated) and turns out not only does he have fb, but he also has a son. Which he denied having kids when we dated. I took it as a "sign" that I had finally met a real man who doesn't lie and is decent. We are still together.
Chi townD Posted July 8, 2014 Posted July 8, 2014 The high of feeling in power has settled now im mostly just annoyed he contacted me because I wasn't thinking about him at all now ive spend half the day doing so, and im especially irritated that all he cared to relay to me was sexual and that I had asked him to not contact me ever unless it was to reconcile (wanna stay single) when we broke up because I had a extremely hard time accepting the loss at the time. Disrespecting my wishes. Yeah, I knew that was going to happen. You come down from your high for taking a stand for yourself, then you get angry and annoyed. There could be a possibility of you becoming a little sad so, be mindful of that. You might think, "Why sad?" well, you invested 5 years into the relationship and the first time he contacts you again it's for a booty call. You might get sad realizing that after five years, that's all he reduced your relationship to. Not the fun times you had together, the laughs, the cuddling up on the couch, the adventures you've went on, the deep conversations...all reduced to a booty call. And that might get you a little sad. So, just be mindful and remember, it's NORMAL to feel this way. 4
Author Omei Posted July 8, 2014 Author Posted July 8, 2014 Of course he replied saying that I didn't have to be so rude pretty much he's a selfish dick 1
Chi townD Posted July 8, 2014 Posted July 8, 2014 Of course he replied saying that I didn't have to be so rude pretty much he's a selfish dick LMAO! This really made me giggle! Didn't expect that to pop up on the screen! LOL! I think you're going to be fine! 1
erklat Posted July 8, 2014 Posted July 8, 2014 I miss your body and face = I imagine undressing you. That is the translation. Even though it may be better if you haven't replied at all.
Author Omei Posted July 9, 2014 Author Posted July 9, 2014 I know it ment that I still liked my reply lol esp now since he feels all guilty for asking. Ps everyone the new English guy im seeing that I liked I wanted to be real clear about what we were getting into he says hes not ready for a relationship and that its just a summer fling, that's okay I went with him figuring this is what it was gonna end up being anyway im glad I asked so I can stop making efforts to know him on a connection basis.
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