Author Patient Posted July 8, 2014 Author Posted July 8, 2014 There were a few peoples post that helped me make my decision.those who talked about how this is about the baby and not him made me make the decision. ..greatly.I work amd have my own place and a car and take great care of my daughter with more effort I can be a great mom to this one too!! I thank everyone for your suggestions it bought me so much comfort!!!
smackie9 Posted July 9, 2014 Posted July 9, 2014 What about the father's rights? I know he is a douche bag, but he IS still the father, and has a right to know that you are having his child, You have to consider this child will want to know who their father is. Are you going to deny this child to know who their father is? Trust me there is going to be a day they will want to find him or ask questions. So what are you going to tell them, he was a douche and they were a mistake? Or make up a story he's dead? 1
Author Patient Posted July 9, 2014 Author Posted July 9, 2014 Hey s mackie I had a conversation with the child's dad and his parents.his parents said they are gonna be there regardless as far as he is concerned we are cordial.hes suppose to go to the dr with me end of this month.he is going to be put on child support we discussed that and as far as rights im going for full custody as soon as the baby gets here.im not concerned with his decision to be there or not ..its sad but im not gonna get my hopes up.i just dont know what im getting rid of I cant do that.
smackie9 Posted July 10, 2014 Posted July 10, 2014 Hey s mackie I had a conversation with the child's dad and his parents.his parents said they are gonna be there regardless as far as he is concerned we are cordial.hes suppose to go to the dr with me end of this month.he is going to be put on child support we discussed that and as far as rights im going for full custody as soon as the baby gets here.im not concerned with his decision to be there or not ..its sad but im not gonna get my hopes up.i just dont know what im getting rid of I cant do that. You have his parents support which will play greatly in your favor. Don't worry about him, his parents will throw the hammer down if he steps out of line. Get in touch with a lawyer, don't "wait" til the child is born. You need to get this in the bag quickly. 1
Author Patient Posted November 29, 2014 Author Posted November 29, 2014 Hi everyone here's an update...I'm having a boy!!!!! I have the son I always wanted!!me and his dad are back together we have a place together and hes there for everything and he takes care of my daughter as well.I am back in school to get my Masters of Education and currently have straight A's.Things are great right now.thanks to everyone who offered advice especially those who suggested I keep my baby.I would've gotten rid of the little boy my heart always desired. Its still a rough road but with God I'm getting through it! 2
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