Amy74 Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 If a girl sends you a foto of herself--it's bad form not to compliment her. Tell her she's beautiful, that you like her smile, her hair reminds you of sunshine...come up with SOMETHING. Men, flattery will get you everywhere--well, almost everywhere *wink*. Want to see more fotos? Compliment her!!! I know you guys already know this...I'm just venting. I just sent my foto to a guy this morning and his response was, "thinking of you." Of course you're thinking of me jackass I just sent you a foto! PS. Could someone pass on the message to the guys in my message log.
PegNosePete Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 And a PSA to the girls. Don't send out photos for the sole purpose of compliment fishing. Seriously what's with that? If a guy says he likes you physically he is shallow, yet if he doesn't he is not paying you enough compliments. Come on. Don't put guys in these lose-lose positions. 5
Author Amy74 Posted July 7, 2014 Author Posted July 7, 2014 And a PSA to the girls. Don't send out photos for the sole purpose of compliment fishing. Seriously what's with that? If a guy says he likes you physically he is shallow, yet if he doesn't he is not paying you enough compliments. Come on. Don't put guys in these lose-lose positions. LOL---okay--duly noted. : ) 1
DArtagnan2 Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 when you expect someone to act in a certain way, you will be most disappointed when they don't. His comment of "thinking of you" was his way of letting you know he is in to you. its how he says and shows what he is feeling. Just FYI, not everyone wants to hear compliments of the pics, some people get uncomfortable when someone googoo's over their pictures and many times it seems disingenuous. just my opinion.
carhill Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 IMO, good compatibility check, as each person's preferences and proclivities differ. Myself, when I was online dating, I tended to compliment ladies I contacted on aspects of their profiles, rather than focusing on their pictures. That seemed to work out OK with those particular ladies. The 'whole person' aspects came more into play when we met. If I was to compliment her on her appearance, it would occur in-person. YMMV!~
dichotomy Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 (edited) And a PSA to the girls. Don't send out photos for the sole purpose of compliment fishing. Seriously what's with that? If a guy says he likes you physically he is shallow, yet if he doesn't he is not paying you enough compliments. Come on. Don't put guys in these lose-lose positions. Right - if your going to send a photo to elicit a response - follow the guys example of proper use of cell cameras - and respond with photos of your private parts. It always gets a response - usually with you loosing your government job and/or appearing on the news. Edited July 7, 2014 by dichotomy 1
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