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If a girl sends you a foto of herself--it's bad form not to compliment her.

Tell her she's beautiful, that you like her smile, her hair reminds you of sunshine...come up with SOMETHING.

 

Men, flattery will get you everywhere--well, almost everywhere *wink*.

Want to see more fotos? Compliment her!!!

 

 

 

I know you guys already know this...I'm just venting. I just sent my foto to a guy this morning and his response was, "thinking of you." Of course you're thinking of me jackass I just sent you a foto!

 

PS. Could someone pass on the message to the guys in my message log. :p

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And a PSA to the girls. Don't send out photos for the sole purpose of compliment fishing. Seriously what's with that? If a guy says he likes you physically he is shallow, yet if he doesn't he is not paying you enough compliments. Come on. Don't put guys in these lose-lose positions.

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And a PSA to the girls. Don't send out photos for the sole purpose of compliment fishing. Seriously what's with that? If a guy says he likes you physically he is shallow, yet if he doesn't he is not paying you enough compliments. Come on. Don't put guys in these lose-lose positions.

 

LOL---okay--duly noted.

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when you expect someone to act in a certain way, you will be most disappointed when they don't. His comment of "thinking of you" was his way of letting you know he is in to you. its how he says and shows what he is feeling.

 

Just FYI, not everyone wants to hear compliments of the pics, some people get uncomfortable when someone googoo's over their pictures and many times it seems disingenuous.

 

just my opinion.

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IMO, good compatibility check, as each person's preferences and proclivities differ.

 

Myself, when I was online dating, I tended to compliment ladies I contacted on aspects of their profiles, rather than focusing on their pictures. That seemed to work out OK with those particular ladies. The 'whole person' aspects came more into play when we met. If I was to compliment her on her appearance, it would occur in-person. YMMV!~

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And a PSA to the girls. Don't send out photos for the sole purpose of compliment fishing. Seriously what's with that? If a guy says he likes you physically he is shallow, yet if he doesn't he is not paying you enough compliments. Come on. Don't put guys in these lose-lose positions.

 

 

Right - if your going to send a photo to elicit a response - follow the guys example of proper use of cell cameras - and respond with photos of your private parts. It always gets a response - usually with you loosing your government job and/or appearing on the news.:lmao:

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Why do some people need so much attention?

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