Poptarts Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 (edited) Well I've been dating this guy for about 5 months. He is 32 years old. Recently he created an Instagram account. He follows me and I follow him. So in my newsfeed I can see exactly what he is doing. A week ago I noticed he is following random girls on instagram and liking almost every (selfie) picture these girls post on instagram. Some of these girls are only 14-16 years old. They are very beautiful girls but with this annoying duckfaces. Does he realy like this?? I have to say this dissapoints me and such a turn-off. And it bothers me. But I'm not realy sure what to think about all this. I use my Instagram pretty private, only for friends and family. But I know there are a lot of attentionseekers out there who use it to gain a lot of followers. Make them look cool or something. I realy don't know about his intentions. Is he just trying to get some followers himself or is he interested in these girls... Should I talk to him about it? Edited July 7, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Edited title.
d0nnivain Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 Knowing that a 32 year old man is following young teen girls would bother me. Do you know for sure they are not relatives? 1
Author Poptarts Posted July 7, 2014 Author Posted July 7, 2014 Ik know for 100% sure they are not related or even friends. He knows none of these girls in real live. He added about 70 random girls/ woman, 12 of them are teenagers.
PegNosePete Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 If I were a woman, I would not want to date a guy who does weird things like that. 1
d0nnivain Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 He has no business following teenaged girls. It's creepy. Bail. Soon. 1
mammasita Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 It would bother me for sure. There's alot of questions I would be asking myself: How does he act otherwise? Does he have a facebook? How many friends there? How does he treat you? Does he make weird comments about other women? Does he comment about other women in front of you? ........etc etc etc 1
Diezel Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 It would bother me for sure. There's alot of questions I would be asking myself: How does he act otherwise? Does he have a facebook? How many friends there? How does he treat you? Does he make weird comments about other women? Does he comment about other women in front of you? ........etc etc etc That's what you would be wondering about? Not the teenaged girls part? 1
mammasita Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 That's what you would be wondering about? Not the teenaged girls part? Um no, the whole damn thing bothers me 1
Author Poptarts Posted July 7, 2014 Author Posted July 7, 2014 It would bother me for sure. There's alot of questions I would be asking myself: How does he act otherwise? Does he have a facebook? How many friends there? How does he treat you? Does he make weird comments about other women? Does he comment about other women in front of you? ........etc etc etc He has an facebookaccount but there is only family and friends. He treats me good, nothing strange intill I discovered his instagram behaviour.
DArtagnan2 Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 He has an facebookaccount but there is only family and friends. He treats me good, nothing strange intill I discovered his instagram behaviour. If he, his nieces/nephews or someone from his family or close friends who is younger that he does know, doesn't know these girls in the pictures / profiles he is liking on instagram, that alone would be troubling to me. I mean, I have a niece who has friends that look for attention or support so I may like a picture of them together hanging out or when they find a new job because that is what an uncle or friend of a family member would do because they know the kid wants and needs to support. But to just like random teenage girls photos or profiles, as someone in their 30's is bothersome regardless if they are looking for people to follow them or they just want to be liked. They can go find that attention from someone OF AGE! lets also mention you are dating him and if he needs attention he should get it from you. I am not saying you aren't giving it to him, but if he is such an attention hog, he can beg you for it, not some teenager.
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