kwander Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 (edited) Hey everyone, Here's the situation - I've been chatting with this one girl for about a month. She's in the same school as I am so we've met a few times before. We've been to one camp together one time, but we haven't talked that much in the real life. At first we used to send about few messages per day, but the amounts began to get greater and greater. The only topics in the beginning of the month were like politics, science and general stuff, but now we are starting to talk about life, choices, love, a bit of sex, not directly of course. She started sending me various videos, even crazy stuff if you know what I mean. She sent me a couple of her own photos on snapchat, but I don't think means something. A couple of days ago she even sent me some of her childhood photos. So here's the deal - I'm not a very attractive guy, badass and stuff. I am smart, gentle, tolerant, wise (she told me that), fit (I do running), very determined. She told me multiple times that I am even romantic, that my girl will be very lucky. Yet she's mentioned that I'm a bit weird a few times though she hasn't taken it for real I guess. She, the girl, is smart, adventurous, very attractive and quite popular, yet she's not like other hot girls - she doesn't fall for bad guys. She's also very kind. So, do I stand a chance? Should I go for her? I mean, we have quite similar interests, not everything, but a fine collection I guess. I know it's very hard to tell anything from this post, but I will take seriously everyone's opinions. Edited July 7, 2014 by kwander
DArtagnan2 Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 Take the whole, "Im not attractive, bad ass..." out of your mind. That doesnt really matter to someone who is more then surface deep. I would continue on with her as you are because obviously, its working for you. If the moment appears to be right, then flirt back with her. Keep yourself open and being just who you are, because as I said, it appears to be working.
d0nnivain Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 So, do I stand a chance? Should I go for her? Oh my heavens! Men are so clueless sometimes. Yes, you stand a good chance! This girl is practically hit you in the head with a 2x4 to get you to wake up to the fact that she likes you. She called you romantic. She told you your GF would be very lucky which is most likely her saying she wants the position.
Author kwander Posted July 7, 2014 Author Posted July 7, 2014 (edited) Thank you for advices. To be honest, it does seem to be working out yet very slowly. Also, there's this one complication. She's advised me once not date anyone in my senior year, 11th grade mainly because that would have an impact on my exam results. I tried to disagree then till we had come to the fact that it's pure luck and it depends on the person, whether the relationship gets in a way. This is kind of stuck in my head because I see this as a problem. The question is, should I really care about this? Is this truly a complication worth considering? Also, about calling me romantic and stuff, she usually do these things in an indirect way, with a joke or something. Edited July 7, 2014 by kwander
fred123 Posted July 8, 2014 Posted July 8, 2014 Oh my heavens! Men are so clueless sometimes. Yes, you stand a good chance! This girl is practically hit you in the head with a 2x4 to get you to wake up to the fact that she likes you. She called you romantic. She told you your GF would be very lucky which is most likely her saying she wants the position. the most ridiculous thing ever said by anyone. she only likes u as a friend. its so obvious. girls only say things like ur romantic if ur their friend. if she wanted to be with you she would never say that. she would be so different in terms of the way she acts with you. watch how she interacts with a hot guy she likes and wants to be with then ul see how ur her best friend or worse her gay friend
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