neil21 Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 Hi ALL , Plz read my this small big story,which is complete different,v were in relation from last 4 yrs bt we were best frnds before that 4 yrs means frm last 8 yrs v knws each other,v met on orkut,i hd gf that time,i used to share evry single thing abt my relation to her,then she started falling for me,she proposed me, i said no,cz i wanted 2 be her best frnd only n i was loyal wid my that another gf,still she wanted me,so every time she used to make me feel n total 13 times she proposed me,der was sum other rsn of family issue thats why also i never wanted to mess my best frndshp,then i had to ignore her bcz of her behavior,then she got bf in college,but unable to b hapy then she msged me to she want to get rid off that guy, i helped her,till time my another gf cheated me i was so depressed,in that time,my this gf started taking care of me n i falled for her,v came in relation,it was good untill she was carefull, frm last yr everything started messing coz she unable to give me time & love due to job n i started expecting more cz v used to meet daily,talk daily n now i was crazy for her n day by day everything was stopped,she used to fear me alott coz i slaped her & abused her when i got to know her past affairs in my back which i got to know from her fb ids n yahoo chats,I was helpless to be overreacted bt I apologied for that mistakes,eveytime i used to talk rudely bcz of her no love n no timing policy,last year in one fight I called her home n her dad picked up the call, her dad got to know abt our relation,they checked her mobile n saw my abusive msgs for her family, so she told everything Abt me,n from that time all messed,we used to talk about marriage also but from that day she lost all hopes of marriage n everything, she started giving me very less love,still I managed to get her back,in between of this last 1 yr her parents got 2 know 3-4 times that v r in relation agn,but sumhow she managed that time n sum days i used to make her fall me agn, now from last mnth again sumthing her parents got 2 know n she started ignoring me ,i waited 6 days n asked her rsn on call many times,but every time she refused n ignored me,then on 7th day I went to ask her near her office bus stop, she saw me n started saying go or i will inform my dad,i was shocked with her behavior, she refused to talk, i was clueless i said i will do sucide if u dont talk to me,listen me lets clear but she agn n agn said to go,she even called her mom, n grabbed her cell,n pulled out its battery,ppl started staring at us so i told her lets cross the road n i started moving but till time she taken the help of vehicle & left that place & i started searching where she gone , after some 35 mins i got call from her number & she said talk with my mom,yes she informed her mom that I came to meet her to force her, her mom abused me insulted me, her mom said isnt she told u that she is getting married ...i was like what ??? Hows that possible..I was in shock, her mom started blackmailing me & i never wanted to face this to my family coz my parents are weak by health which my gf was knowing it,i cried alott, used to think agn n agn how this possible,after sum days i again forced myself to ask her coz it was driving me crazy,i tried to catch her many times, infact my one female frnd met her to discuss about how much i love her, my gf cried that time n said even she love me ,my frnd thought she will come back,my frnd after 4 days started calling but she ignored n msged her that i dont wana contact him, i dont wana talk with you n anyome then again i started to go near her office but due to her frnds group never able to meet but one day i able to meet her n i asked politely ki i wanaa talk she refused but i calmly asked then she said ok n then i started telling her how much imp she is for me,i cried very badly in front of her, i fallen in road while walking as i had no energy,but she didnt felt anything for me,i forcefully said her to hug me,she hugged me after lots of begging but forcefully,she was getting angried only n agn n agn was saying that it is our last meeting & v wil talk but rarely & accept the fact that i am marrying,i asked her abt his husband she refused to talk anything she said i never told u bcz u were in exams n never wanted to give u tensions in exams but mom told you thats why accept the truth & forget me & leave me( i still dont have single proof that its true coz there are loads of things i have seen which indicates she was lieng maybe bcz of parents torture ??? ) then she started using whatsapp(yes i never let her to use whatsapp coz in fb only lots of ppl started proposing her, i always stayed away her from Males bcz i never wanted to loose her anyhow, her past only used to force me to do all things but i never failed in giving love which is most imp), i somehow managed to get her new number of whatsapp & she was shocked by seeing that i got her new number also of whatsapp ..she got to know i am always onlinr then she blocked me by saying her sis got to know v again talking each other, then after sum days she changed her whatsapp status to sad one like killing herself with gun, i was started thinking what shd be happend,n worried so i went to see her agn near her office busstop , i was at long distance but she saw me then i tried to talk with her but she left that place by getting cab n after sum mins agn i got frm her mom n this time her mom very much angried ..n then her dad called me n started blackmailing that v will do police case, thanks to my sis who managed to talked with them ,v thought its over but after 2 days her dad complained to police , police called me once but i ignored the calls,then my phone was off, now v r no more in contact , after some days i started expressing my feelings that how much u cheated me, how much i loved u, u used me like this on whatsapp status n dp on my other numbers then she also changed her status that " u r biggest mistake of my life & i am still paying for it " " you hv no right to judge me " & blocked my other numbers too..then i came here read your all posts, felt better that i have some hopes,i changed my dp to normal one & normal status,but i feels she is moved on,she used to chat on whatsapp for late night with sumone till 2.30am,yes its daily,i have no idea who is he/she but its killing me but when v had relation she always used to sleep before 12am then 2 whom she chats daily? she used to recharge her number every 2 days means she is calling someone also,she blocked my emails ,contacts everything when i tried to send her old memories pics but insted replying she blocked me..n msged me once that i dont want to c u agn, dont interfer in my life or she will complaint to there family again,i have no idea what to do now i am ready to do no contact rule but since my case is very different ..do you think will it work ?? What if her mom was right that she is marrying but if its true why she will put such status on whatsapp?when her bf or husband can see it?? I have no idea what is truth n lies, but when v had relation she never told abt marriage & but it is also true that she chats 24hrs these days even though she gets tired from office works,if its bf i can get her back with ur help coz i have seen her true love before , you know her love forced me to accept 14th proposal..there r lods of things she did before to express her love..so it is difficult for me to accept that she is same girl who used to force me for marriage now dont giving damn to me,so plz guide me ,what shd I do ? I still have sum hopes n never wanaa giveup unless I get to know she is really happy with her bf/husband, you are the only hope/god/frnd for me now,i will do everything even its painfull to get her back, Plz answer this i searched aloot but never able to got answers which are regarding how to behave on whatsapp/social networking sites : 1)how should I behave on WhatsApp I mean I believe she unblocks me atlst once in a week to check my status n DP ..should I show her I moved on ? 2)should i keep my own dp wih happy pic ? 3)what kinda status should i put on whatsapp for same? my current status is : Eat = sleep = rave = repeat 4)should i show her that i moved on with my career ? 5)should i show her that i got new gf or sum kinda such girls ? 6)should i make her jeolous by keeping girls dp with me & flirting with gals? 7)m planning to show her that i am leaving my state after one month of NC should i ? 8)even she do not unblockes me she can check my status n dp through her frnds number so in that case what to put & what to not ? 9)how to react on facebook though i belive she have created fb a/c this time again which is not tracable. Thing is I always used to say "u r worst,u did everything bad with me, everything happens bcz of u ,my ex was better than u,I usd to blame her Lott cz seriosly she not even meets me easily, i used to make her feel that dear m ur bf n v r in relation..so she used to say that i will die n you will be happy forever means she wanted me to be happy n if i showed her that i moved on then maybe she will accept it coz i always blamed her for every single thing,sumtimes she used to say to breakup cz she were unable to give love & fullfill my expectations,she used to say that she wont be able to love me due coz whatever she do m not gets happy,today I realized how much wrong I did ..but she also knows how much I truly loved her n how much mad I was for her..she knows everything that I will never hate her, yes never..which I proved even after my police case incident ..by texting that how much I love her ..n how much I care for her..plz kevin ..this is almost 35 days gone without her,my frnd saw her near one hospital so I worried n msged her by taking risk that what happend tell me I will help you, I am always der for u, but instead replying me she blocked me on gmail ..n that time it was 12 am n she Was online as usual with Sumone with late night . she is proving day by day she don't want me but I don't wanaa loose her, I want to show her I have changed n I wanaa give her every piece of happiness ,the guys with whom she is chatting is grabbing her from me, i can see that she is not sleeping also for chatting which never happened with me before,if its true, how she will miss me ?? when her new bf or sumone is not letting her to miss me anymore...Only her late night online whstapp freaks my mind badly ..I goes mad..n I can't msg her also coz she can complaint to her pshycho parents & they can do anything to me, ( i really have no idea whether she said atleast once to her parents that she also wants me or not) , I can't even express my feelings anymore bcz of her blackmailings ..plz help Kevin,I admit that I was over possesive for her,not only whatsapp but she recharged for calling pack,she also used to recharge within every 2 or single day, which indicates that she is really moved on & loving someone..but i dont know whether he is new bf or her upcoming husband,she is not keeping any status but used to change dp with happy faces, i cries every single day, i pray for her ,i am still crying while writing,i have no single frnd in my life cz i was so envolved in her, she was my day n night,she was my everything, its killing me that how she forgotten me easily,its all about 8 yrs. one incident also happnd that she used my route of home & by bus to go next station which was very weird,coz route to go stn was different in her area but still she choosen my bus which goes from my home road..my sis saw her n asked her y ur here,she fears alott, she was on call that time with heavily makeup...so i alwys thinks that maybe she might felt that i will see her in same route,maybe she also miss me? i never seen her roaming anywhere,but what she do is only whatsapp & calling.plz help kevin, u r the only hope now,i dont wana move on,i want to grow only with her, my age is 24 n her 23, we lives in india,today she enjoing her life allott by making me forever alone, i will never able to love agn anymore now, i will never marry any other girl, i also blocked her just for doing no contact but i dont think there is use anymore, plz be my god n help me, m ready to do every single step, m on 3rd day of NC, on 25th may she bought new phone n new sim & started using whatsapp(in my back ) 1)On 26th may she blocked me on whatsapp by saying her sis read all chats which was true which i got to know on 29th may 2)On 29th May dis police incident happend which i mentioned above 3)on 10th june i mailed her sumthing precios pics which v spent on 2013 year,wid long lovestory by thinking that she will miss me,she read but didnt replied, 3)on 13th June she unblocked n warned me cz i used to show my love,anger,blames through whatsapp dp n status,so she warned me that stop playing on whatsapp & stay away from me n agn blocked me, then i msged on gtalk then she responded that she can tell there parents about my mail,she said she dont want 2 see me ever agn n bye forevr,i asked r u happy? she said yes coz now der is no one to abuse n slap her,i said ok m happy 4 u, 4)on 16th june i msged on gtalk which i mentioned above abt seeing her near hospital but she blocked me, (PS from 30th May-5th June, she searched for old songs,new songs n also female peace temples ,Route for one city to another city & lyrics of Quit playing games of my heart , I know i do stalking alott, I am cyber researcher so i able to get this details easily.) from that day, m acting cool n spreading love on whatsapp,also got 2 knw she met sumone 2 times for love movie & that time i sured that she is wid sumone else but no idea bf /future husband, also by call logs i able to find that guys last 4 digits to whol she calls in her job period, i changed my status when i saw her in movies that " felt so bad by seeing u in someones arms & it was so quick", No idea whether she reads of not,& once posted status " Just enjoy ur life n chill, nothing to complaint " now i unblocked her n removed my dp n status n stopped using whatsapp from last 3 days,so for me NC is 5th day, losing hope day by day.
Author neil21 Posted July 8, 2014 Author Posted July 8, 2014 Please Friends...Help me out, I have huge hope from you.
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