Sweett Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 So i got a message from a guy online and we started chatting and the conversations were good. He said he wanted to meet me so we had a quick meet and greet in a wal mart parking for about 10 minutes to see if we both looked like the photos on our profile and that went good. After we continued to converse online. But i found it strange he didn't ask for my number. He said he wanted to see me again asap and i was like when and where thinking it would be a date this time but it was like 1030 at night during the week and he wanted me to come back to the same parking lot i was like no its late and i am in bed. So then i said well goodnight maybe i'll dream about u and obviously he took that all wrong because his response was very sexual ( i won't say the details on here) and he wanted me to reply back sexually but when i told him i wasn't and that he was putting me in a weird spot he just said he was playing with my imagination. I just find that weird because if he were truly interested in something more he would've asked for my number and i would've gotten a descent sit down somewhere the second time as opposed to the parking lot again. He saw that i wasn't really talking to him after he said that and apologized And was like take care and I'm like take care ? So thats all there was huh no other interest and i told him i was not on there looking for that. He responded that he was used to sex and didn 't wanna be stressed at this time. Did i overact with his imagination? I just really don't think he was interested in anything other than physical but he is trying to make me feel like i was wrong and that i am stressing him!
PegNosePete Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 Yes he is just looking for sex. If he wanted a date he would have suggested a date, not a late night rendezvous in a parking lot (how romantic?), probably hoping to get you in his car. NEXT! 4
Author Sweett Posted July 7, 2014 Author Posted July 7, 2014 Yes he is just looking for sex. If he wanted a date he would have suggested a date, not a late night rendezvous in a parking lot (how romantic?), probably hoping to get you in his car. NEXT! Yeah i agree. I just hate how he tried to use reverse psychology trying to imply that i was stressing him. 1
Moonborn Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 Yes he is just looking for sex. If he wanted a date he would have suggested a date, not a late night rendezvous in a parking lot (how romantic?), probably hoping to get you in his car. NEXT! Kind of creepy too if I may add.
d0nnivain Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 He is not a quality person at all. You met a stranger off the internet in a parking lot? That sounds dangerous. He could have kidnapped you or worse. You need to re- evaluate the attention you pay to your own safety. Start with the proposition that everyone you encounter is lying to you or at least has bad motives & let them prove otherwise.
ascendotum Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 This cracked me up. I guess you have only just started OLD. A midweek rendezvous at the Walmart parking lot at 11pm. lol. I'd love to know how many takers he has had with this date night approach. For sure he wanted a 2nd bite of the cherry when you said you would dream of him after that.
Author Sweett Posted July 7, 2014 Author Posted July 7, 2014 This cracked me up. I guess you have only just started OLD. A midweek rendezvous at the Walmart parking lot at 11pm. lol. I'd love to know how many takers he has had with this date night approach. For sure he wanted a 2nd bite of the cherry when you said you would dream of him after that. Ok what bite of what cherry?? I didn't touch the guy. Wth?
Elle1975 Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 Yep, sex. If he wanted to date you, he would have asked you out on a proper date, instead of a walmart parking lot. I mean at least he could have met you at a StarBucks.. A Walmart parking lot? He probably was going to ask you for a quick BJ...
ascendotum Posted July 8, 2014 Posted July 8, 2014 Ok what bite of what cherry?? I didn't touch the guy. Wth? Its not a sex term, but an expression, same as 2nd bite of the apple. It means to attempt something for the second time. He was meeting for sex, but it went past you, and instead of telling him to get lost (like many I bet), you said you would dream of him, so he would have immediately thought he was still in the running, and had a 2nd go with the dirty talk. Elle nailed it.
MissBee Posted July 8, 2014 Posted July 8, 2014 The Walmart parking lot meet up already was a bad sign... But yes he pretty much admitted he's only looking for sex by saying he's used to it and isn't trying to stressed out [with what a real relationship entails]. He sounds awful! Be glad he showed his true colors. Delete, block and move on. 1
spiderowl Posted July 8, 2014 Posted July 8, 2014 I think you had a narrow escape there. He's only interested in sex and is a dodgy character at that. What kind of guy asks to meet you in a parking lot late at night - a rapist, serial killer? Don't even contemplate meeting such a guy, he has no idea of what's normal and decent. His behaviour is of great concern. A decent guy will be respectful, meet you in a public place at a reasonable hour so that you feel safe and won't ask you to meet him anywhere outside in the dark late at night. You do not need to worry about upsetting this guy. Look after yourself and protect yourself from sinister characters like this. 2
Elle1975 Posted July 8, 2014 Posted July 8, 2014 I feel that how a relationship starts often puts in place the dynamics for the said relationship. A Walmart parking lot speaks volume. 1
Lipitor11 Posted July 9, 2014 Posted July 9, 2014 Um..yeah, he is looking for sex and he sounds creepy. Meeting at a Wal-Mart parking lot???? That's a red flag.
Imported Posted July 9, 2014 Posted July 9, 2014 Maybe he wanted to go shopping with you. Some Walmarts are open 24hours. Late night is the only time I'd shop there. Just kidding. That was potentially dangerous for you. You should not put yourself in a position like that. That guy is not a person you want to be around.
Versacehottie Posted July 9, 2014 Posted July 9, 2014 um yeah and he is probably also in a relationship. sketchy. he didn't ask for your number because he doesn't want to give you his!!! Meaning he is hiding something in his real life. He skipped that very normal step (online contact, exchange of phone numbers, texting/talking on phone then meeting in person) because he is hiding something. 1
Miss Awesome Posted July 9, 2014 Posted July 9, 2014 So i got a message from a guy online and we started chatting and the conversations were good. He said he wanted to meet me so we had a quick meet and greet in a wal mart parking for about 10 minutes to see if we both looked like the photos on our profile and that went good. After we continued to converse online. But i found it strange he didn't ask for my number. He said he wanted to see me again asap and i was like when and where thinking it would be a date this time but it was like 1030 at night during the week and he wanted me to come back to the same parking lot i was like no its late and i am in bed. So then i said well goodnight maybe i'll dream about u and obviously he took that all wrong because his response was very sexual ( i won't say the details on here) and he wanted me to reply back sexually but when i told him i wasn't and that he was putting me in a weird spot he just said he was playing with my imagination. I just find that weird because if he were truly interested in something more he would've asked for my number and i would've gotten a descent sit down somewhere the second time as opposed to the parking lot again. He saw that i wasn't really talking to him after he said that and apologized And was like take care and I'm like take care ? So thats all there was huh no other interest and i told him i was not on there looking for that. He responded that he was used to sex and didn 't wanna be stressed at this time. Did i overact with his imagination? I just really don't think he was interested in anything other than physical but he is trying to make me feel like i was wrong and that i am stressing him! Don't meet anyone else in a parking lot! For any reason! If someone really wants to meet you, he'll do it properly, even if it's just for coffee or something quick. And yes, it sounds like he just wanted gross Wal-mart parking lot sex..
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