renoi Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 Excuse my English, it is not my first language. Me and my ex parted ways in December 2013. I am 29 and she is 28. We've known each other since I was 16. We didn't keep in touch after high school graduation in 2004. Three years later, I saw her profile on facebook and contacted her. We became a couple in 2012. The relationship didn't end well. Since the break up I have moved on with my life and put all my focus on my schooling. I decided to go NC and I have already come to terms that our 11 plus year of friendship is over and it is time to move on. I have not seen, called, texted and even emailed her since our last converstion in Dec 2013. The last time I talked to her was in December to return her clothes. Since then I have made no efforts to get her back, besides she told me in December that she found somebody else. I was also talking to another person myself. We were no longer together at that point anyway. Since then, she had changed her number. The only reason I even know she changed her number is because since December, she has contacted me three times. The first time she sent me a text message asking about what kind of palm oil my mom uses to cook. I didn't know it was her texting at the time. I replied to the text asking who it was but got no response. About three weeks later, the same number texted me again and this time it was specific so I knew who it was. She said she just got back from New york and her brother asked about me so she took the opportunity to just say Hello. I didn't respond. A month later she texted again asking about what kind of glycerin my mom uses. That was yesterday. I didn't text back and I won't text her back. I really don't know what she wants. Each times I have deleted the messages. I never would've known about her new number if it wasn't for her. I thought she would've deleted my number already. What do you guys think she is doing? Is she just bored? That is what I am thinking and I am not entertaining it. I am not going to respond to her anyway. I know she doesn't want me back and I am not going down that road with her again anyway as far as us giving it another try (otherwise I would have at least made an effort), and like I said I am fine with her not being in my life anymore. I am not dating somebody else right now. Since we broke up, I finished school and right now I am looking for a job with my degree.
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