BigHarold Posted July 6, 2014 Posted July 6, 2014 I am 47 years old male and I have been dating a 61 year old lady for two years. She broke up with me because she says she did not feel protected, respected or loved. Her past husbands were very rich and showered her with expensive gifts and large amounts of cash. I was not able to compete with her past relationships and she says instead of buying a car I should have given her the cash. Last year she complained that we did not go on trips. But, she was in accidents, had illness and other problems. I proposed that we go on a trip this year. She says instead of spending money on a trip, I should give her the cash. My questions are: How do I know if she was a gold digger? Did I screw up the relationship by not going into my retirement savings to give money to her?
MoooOinkBaaa Posted July 6, 2014 Posted July 6, 2014 She sounds VERY materialistic and shallow. She should of realized YOU are the prize. I wouldn't want to be with someone who values love and respect around money. Money is the root of all evil. I'm glad you didn't give her any money from your savings, then you WOULD of screwed up. I would say she's more interested in cash than you, she proved this by showing she would rather have money than spend time travelling with you. I'm sorry man, you deserve better than that
zen2475 Posted July 6, 2014 Posted July 6, 2014 This woman is a gold digger and you did nothing wrong. I agree with the other response that YOU are the prize, but I don't think this woman is capable of seeing past your bank balance. I think the universe did you a big favor by removing her from your life. Now you are free to find someone who will appreciate you for you and all that you have to offer (besides your money). I wish you the very best. 1
Mr.Pine Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 My questions are: How do I know if she was a gold digger? Did I screw up the relationship by not going into my retirement savings to give money to her? You're funny, Harry. I like your style. Since you are obviously out for a laugh, I'll respond accordingly. Drain your account on the senior citizen. How many years does she have left? Let her golden years...well, be filled with gold.
Author BigHarold Posted July 7, 2014 Author Posted July 7, 2014 This is a real situation. I am deeply hurt.
Mr.Pine Posted July 8, 2014 Posted July 8, 2014 This is a real situation. I am deeply hurt. Real situation? You're asking us if you should drain your savings on a sextagenarian. I am deeply hurt you are asking such an inane question.
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