willnevergether Posted July 6, 2014 Posted July 6, 2014 how long do you wait? few message? maybe 20-25 ? a week of talking?
Dallers Posted July 6, 2014 Posted July 6, 2014 how long do you wait? few message? maybe 20-25 ? a week of talking? The end of the conversation for me. If I start messaging her early evening I expect to secure the number by the close, and normally do. I rarely proceed to a second day of Online Dating messaging unless she messages me first then it must happen on the second day. After that secure the date within a week. There are 44000 people Online in the UK on Match.com at any one time. Why waste more than a day on one person?
Andy_K Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 After a few messages with some sort of interest on her part - e.g offering info you didn't ask, or asking questions about you. If you're just getting one liners or polite replies she's not interested enough.
PegNosePete Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 After 3-5 quality messages. It doesn't pay to hang around. Exchange phone numbers and arrange a real-life meeting as soon as possible. When I was active I would send messages on sunday or monday, phone call tuesday or wednesday, meet on friday, saturday or sunday. If no interest in a second date, start over the next week.
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