Everyone feeling hurt that ex is having sex with others shortly after breakup

[Justaguy30]

I keep seeing people posting about their ex sleeping around weeks after a breakup. Perhaps people could share their thoughts and feelings about this.

[Amy74]

Last time we broke up he slept with his ex-wife (gag). He said it was just once--revenge sex. I'm still not sure if it revenge against me or against her for leaving him in the first place.

 

I imagine that he's with her again...maybe they're even talking about getting back together.

 

When I first found out that he was with her, after the first time we broke up, I used to wish that he had chosen some random instead of HER. Now I think that they deserve each other---maybe they'll get back together and make each other miserable all over again.

[sugarlove]

What I don't know can't hurt me... so I won't even bother to check up on him. IN fact, thinking he is sleeping around is actually helping me to move on and close the door forever.

[Sad26]

Mine slept immediately after we agreed for a month long break. Her reason was that she needed intimacy and was love sick. Why didn't she come to me if she needed love ?

 

I got to know about it 6 months later and it hurts a lot. I wish she would never have told me.

Oh, and in those 6 months I asked her every time we would talk if she had sex with anyone else, she always said no. The thought itself makes me sick.

[love1336x]

Less than a week he was bedding this hoe at our job.

It hurt, but it sorta helped. It made me realize if he wants trash like that. I can't beat that because well I'm not trash. Lol. ^.^

[Justaguy30]

For me my ex is a serial cheater so she was doing this before we broke up. She was always talking to this guy at her work and it turns out they are dating now which really hurt me but he was sleeping over there the first night I wasn't there. People just suck. On a side note she came over and tried to screw me one night after I assume they got in an argument. Shes a hoe