Whats is wrong with him?

[MissClaudia]

there is that guy that was after me , i didn't like him in the beginning but after that i thought he might me nice, so i asked him clearly if he likes the way i am and that later he shall not complain that im boring so because im a shy i told him that : He was ok with it , he was textin me calling me over his place then suddenly he stopped contacting me we didn't talk for a week , im really angry because i told him in the beginning if he doesn't like me he should tell me so i wont get hurt.

My cousin asked him if he likes me he said yes but the problem is that i don't talk a lot , my cousin told me everything she said to him that if he doesn't want me he should say it to her , he said no he doesn't want to loose me , so i wanted to talk to him about it because he is confusing me i mean if he don't like me he should tell me . so i was waiting for him to see me but nothing!!! so i got fed up i texted him today and said:

 

ME: Hey, you ok? i want to talk to you today let me know whenever you are free

 

HIM: Yeah , im fine thanks, how are you ? i come and talk to you soon x

 

ME: ok text me when you free ,,, and yh im ok thanks x

 

HIM: Good :-) x

 

 

so shall i wait for him to text me to talk? i want to ask him where im standing with him this is not fair to me , he should off told me long time ago that he not into me ,,,,,,

im angry because i was hurt by one guy before and swore i will never want someone else , so this guy was

telling me that i was the only girl he wants , i told him about my past , i used to tell him i don't want anyone then i started liking him he doesn't know!! now he changed do you think i have the right to confront him about this,,, and what shall i say to him?

 

shall i wait for him to text me when he is free?

im just seating at home for day not knowing where im standing with him he is saying this and does something else ,,,,i said to him over text once if you don't like me tell me s

so im not wasting my time , no reply so im confused

[d0nnivain]

Take some responsibility for your own life and happiness.

 

One, the guy that previously hurt you is one person. Not everybody behaves like him. Just because he hurt you doesn't mean you should cut everyone else off.

 

Two stop with the mixed messages This guy told you he likes you. Not talking a lot is one thing. Failing to give this poor man any encouragement is something else. You are playing with his feelings. You want him to do all the work pursuing you, talking to you, & taking all the risks with his feelings without assuring him that his heart won't be broken either.

 

Three -- don't send childish ultimatums. The game you are playing reminds me of grade school where the kids pass notes: Do you love me? Check Yes or No.

 

Since you are already immaturely communicating through your cousin get her to assure him that if he asked you on a proper date you would go, then go. Give the poor guy a chance rather than forcing these declarations.