Leroy82 Posted July 6, 2014 Posted July 6, 2014 Here is my deal. The girl who is the reasoning behind why I joined this blog wants to hangout this Friday. We happen to run into each other on the 4th. And last night we talked a little over the phone. Just catching up like old friends, noting romantic. Anyway, we are talking about hanging out next weekend. And I’m not sure how I feel about that. When I got off the phone it felt good. Like, I can do this. I am over her and we can be friends. Now, I’m not sure. I have this pit in my stomach because it took a few months to get over her and now I am jumping back into the fire. Half of me wants to date her because I am attracted to her and the other half of me wants to run to the hills. But I do know I would like to be friends or at lest civil. I know the answer is to continue with NC but I want to know has anybody else run into something like this. Is it me over thinking it. And it was both of us that were pushing to hang out. I brought it up and it was her that said lets get together this Friday. And it was her that texted me. Ughh sometime I wish I was not capable of feelings. Then I wouldn’t be miserable...lol
elseaacych Posted July 6, 2014 Posted July 6, 2014 You still are unsure of where you are at emotionally. It's a dangerous place for you. Run for the hills and don't talk to her. 3
smackie9 Posted July 6, 2014 Posted July 6, 2014 Stop hanging out with ex GFs. You don't need them in your life so they can toss you into the friends zone and use you for attention. Screw that. How the hell are you going to meet someone new when you are wasting your precious time hanging out with an ex GF. Tell her it's over, you have moved on with your life, and to stop contacting you. 2
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