Dallers Posted July 6, 2014 Posted July 6, 2014 I have only been on POF two months but must have gone through a good 250 conversations to meet only 1 good girl out of the lot of them. OP you must toughen up for online dating and look for the signs. It is quite easy once the conversation starts with a girl to send a few pre-prepared questions early on to test the waters. One clear cut question that I always use is to test for banter. It is amazing how many people cannot take a joke and immediately show their true colours and attack you. Remember that the majority of the people on Online Dating are single for a reason, and if it is not difficult for a girl to meet a guy in real life. There are a few genuine girls that are just unlucky or shy but the majority are there for attention and games. You will become one of those games unless you wear your armour and use it. 1
Author jayy23 Posted July 6, 2014 Author Posted July 6, 2014 She's blocked me on Instagram aswell. A didn't actually think she would react like this but Yeh. Not much I can do a suppose.
2sunny Posted July 6, 2014 Posted July 6, 2014 She's blocked me on Instagram aswell. A didn't actually think she would react like this but Yeh. Not much I can do a suppose. Because she was caught lying! Why don't you block her? You should be grateful to be done with a jerk like her. 2
babycakees Posted July 6, 2014 Posted July 6, 2014 She's blocked me on Instagram aswell. A didn't actually think she would react like this but Yeh. Not much I can do a suppose. Not only is she a liar, but she's immature too. Move on. 4
benzo72 Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 Well do two things here. First make a fake pof profile to be sure. Put some goodlooking guys pic on there. Second message her and try to flirt. If its successful, break it to her on pof that who you REALLY are! The lastly break up with her, go cold and no contact!
smackie9 Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 Well do two things here. First make a fake pof profile to be sure. Put some goodlooking guys pic on there. Second message her and try to flirt. If its successful, break it to her on pof that who you REALLY are! The lastly break up with her, go cold and no contact! Waste of time. 3
kaylan Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 Yeh we did. She even took a screen shot of her deleting her account and sent me it so that I knew she did delete it so she has obviously made a new one since. She has said to me that she has told her brother and friends about me but hasn't told her parents but will soon? It's wierd cause sometimes she will come out with random things like what would you do if I had another bf would you tell him about us.. and I'm just like a don't even know what to think about that like why would you even say something like that? The fvk? Screenshots to prove profile deletion? Who does that? Anyways, dump this chick. Shes up to no good. 3
ExpatInItaly Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 Well do two things here. First make a fake pof profile to be sure. Put some goodlooking guys pic on there. Second message her and try to flirt. If its successful, break it to her on pof that who you REALLY are! The lastly break up with her, go cold and no contact! Absolutely pointless. OP already knows the truth. Going to these lengths is a waste of time. Better to spend that time doing something more productive, like moving on. 2
PegNosePete Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 Yes, lucky you but it's VERY rare. Most OLDing experiences are nightmares! Don't believe me just peruse the boards! You're right, don't believe you. Believe hard statistics. 17% of marriages began on an online dating site. Source: Online Dating Statistics | Statistic Brain When are you going to stop your unfounded bashing of this method of meeting people? Seriously, it's getting very old now. Pun intended. 1
tigerdog Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 Meeting people online is a fine way to meet people. Definitely shouldn't be your ONLY method but one of many. I have quite a few friends who met their serious partners on there. In terms of this girl... there are red flags all over this. I think deactivating your dating profile is very individual. The last guy I was seeing, I had mine up the entire time. I never checked it and actually kicked myself once for typing in a similar name to the dating site in my browser and having it automatically log me in, gah, and feeling like "oh no, if he sees that, he'll think I'm still looking." I was very serious about the guy I was seeing at the time but honestly just got lazy and it didn't even cross my mind to deactivate it. I just never logged in. However if she TOLD YOU she was deactivating it, and then edited it, then that's a clear sign that she's not good relationship material. Facebook is also very individual. In this case, this girl has enough red flags against her and you should call it quits. In the future, everyone handles FB differently. I only say I'm in a relationship after several months but that's mainly because up until a few months have passed, I can really get a feel on if this person will be a long-term boyfriend.
Amy74 Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 Sorry she's a flake--cheater--liar. It's time to move on. 3
mammasita Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 Seems most people online are crazy and unfaithful. No idea why good people continue to OLD. I will say it again. people that use OLD are crazy and unfaithful, spoons make people fat and guns kill people 1
smackie9 Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 I will say it again. people that use OLD are crazy and unfaithful, spoons make people fat and guns kill people HAHAHAHA! Now that's funny!
the tank Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 So in short I started a relationship with a girl I met on pof. We had been talking for a few months then eventually decided to meet we hung out for a while until I got to the point of asking her out (she said yes) we have been together for just over a month now but Im starting to think somthing is up. When we started the relationship we both deleted our accounts on pof but just the other day I decided to download the app and have a look to make sure she did delete hers. Turns out she didn't. She was even online at the time I checked and she has recent pictures of herself up. It says she is single and she has put her instagram name on it saying.. follow me. I know that she talks to other guys but when I have asked about them she just tells me they are friends but it's not just a few and she has never even met most of them. All these guys are after one thing and half of them she started talking to from pof so why would she still want to talk to them when she has me? She also refuses to change her fb status to in a relationship and won't put any pictures of us together on her instagram. I'm thinking that she doesn't want these guys to know she has a bf for some reason. Am not sure what to do. let her go . She is a liar .
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