JRico Posted July 6, 2014 Posted July 6, 2014 Hi, here is my full story for more info http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/coping/479791-40-days-nc-need-some. As i said i saw my exgirlfriend last night and... i didnt feel any weird thing. I simply said hi, everything ok? and thats all... maybe i was giving it more importance than it had, i dont know. In fact she was more shocked than i was, couldnt help noticing she was looking all time at me when i was with my friend, and its just a "point" for the ego, i dont give it more importance than it has, in fact im stil not going to the weding because nothing has changed. Later in the night a mutual friend asked why did i run to other place when she was coming to my table to say goodbye and i told him the truth, it was a missunderstanding, i didnt even notice, but im not going to write her anything to explain since i dont feel its my problem anymore. I just wanted to post this so anyone with more experience in this things can tell me if this is good for my recovery or something with no importance at all because I'm feeling really happy from the moment i realized I felt nothing special seing her.. (She is stil special for me, thats for sure but i mean no "" was removed inside of me). Thanks for reading
Lovemeagain Posted July 6, 2014 Posted July 6, 2014 WOO HOO JRico. I don't know your whole story but I read this post about you seeing your ex last night and I feel proud of you! You don't owe her an explanation and the fact that you don't feel like using that as an excuse to actually contact her = 2 thumbs up and a smiley face You are on your way to bigger and better things my friend. 1
Author JRico Posted July 6, 2014 Author Posted July 6, 2014 I just saw your thread and my ex used the same line as your ex... NC is helping a lot!
SuperGeek Posted July 6, 2014 Posted July 6, 2014 Why do people hang out with their exes? I just don't understand it. Get them out of your life and move on. It's not worth having them as friends. Being friends with an ex is a myth. As soon as you get a new g/f, she's history anyway. It's unfair to be friends with an ex while dating a new g/f. Cut the cord and start fresh. I'm assuming you don't have kids with the ex. SuperGeek
Author JRico Posted July 6, 2014 Author Posted July 6, 2014 I didn't meet her, she was at the same place i was, thats all hah I dont even have her cell number since 11 days after BU. We just went to the same place and im not thinking about meeting her.. And no, no kids
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