Lovemeagain Posted July 6, 2014 Posted July 6, 2014 My ex and I were in a relationship for 2 1/2 years (long distance for a year for work) and a month ago he "needed time for himself and a break." I kinda went the crazy pathetic route and begged and begged for him not to leave me. I know it was definitely the wrong move but at the moment it was the correct thing to do. I feel so stupid and I finally "kinda" put my pathetic self together and it has been a whole 16 days of NC. I have to get my things from my ex in 6 days. I will need to break NC and I will see him for the first time in 3 1/2 months. I am not sure how I will be or how he will be. I still love him so much and want us to be back together. I hope that he still loves me. Everyone please give me advice on what I should do. Half of me believes that he still wants to be with me and the other half is like "girl he is long gone." Give it to me folks. The good, the bad, and the ugly. I think I just need to hear it. Thanks 1
love1336x Posted July 6, 2014 Posted July 6, 2014 You need to keep your mind occupy! I think its easier said than done, but that's what you really need to do. You need to stop focusing on him. Remember he wants the break, he wants to not be in a relationship. I'm a firm believer if you truly love a person you will do anything in your power to stay. Breaks are cope out and give false hope for a future. Move on sweetie. I know its tough, but you will get through it. One day at a time.
Author Lovemeagain Posted July 7, 2014 Author Posted July 7, 2014 Thank you Love1336x. I am trying to stay busy and everything but its hard to accept that he doesn't love me any more.
emotionalMess Posted July 7, 2014 Posted July 7, 2014 Why break NC? Can you have your things shipped? He wants life without you, then give it to him. If he stays away, he does not give a sh*t anymore. He broke it off so there is nothing you can really do or say. He has to be the one to initiate any reconciliation. Your happiness should not depend on his approval of you. “The moment you feel like you have to prove your worth to someone is the moment to absolutely and utterly walk away.” —Alysia Harris Your happiness should come from within, find that.
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