Lovemeagain Posted July 6, 2014 Posted July 6, 2014 My ex and I were together for 2 1/2 years before he decided that he needed a break. I have done NC for 16 days and it has been a struggle. We are in different states at the moment and I am supposed to get my belongings and my car in a week. This means that I will have to break NC and I just don't know how I will do. I want to be strong and not show any emotions...as if I don't care but to be honest I still love him and I want us to be back together. He said that when I get my things he doesn't want to see me because it has been hard for him as well and he doesn't want to "fall back in love with me." He said that he would stay away from the apartment so that I can get my things. Of course my mind races with all of these "possibilities and what if's." Do you think that he still loves me and he is telling the truth that he doesn't want to see me because he still cares for me? and blah blah blah. Please help me...I need advice and I haven't had anyone to really talk to so this website has been my only outlet for my emotions. I feel as though others who have been through and are going through this would help the most. Thank you
d0nnivain Posted July 6, 2014 Posted July 6, 2014 Take a friend with you to get your stuff. You will be grateful for the buffer. It will prevent all sorts of awkward stuff, including break up sex.
Griesfootball Posted July 6, 2014 Posted July 6, 2014 Agree you cannot have sex, it will only confuse things
Author Lovemeagain Posted July 6, 2014 Author Posted July 6, 2014 Thanks for the advice. I don't have anyone to take with me but I don't want to be the fairwell sex for him either. It will just make me think that he wants to get back together. He said that he would stay away while I get my things so hopefully that is what will happen and I can get my things and leave.
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