Paige1377 Posted July 6, 2014 Posted July 6, 2014 Three years later I'm over my ex...I waited a long time for him and now there's indifference...time heals everything...trust me
Ordinaryday Posted July 6, 2014 Posted July 6, 2014 Three years later I'm over my ex...I waited a long time for him and now there's indifference...time heals everything...trust me have you ever heard the expression "be careful what you wish for cos you just might get it?" - that applies to A LOT of dumpees. they spend so much time hoping their dumper will come back and if it actually does happen they may realise that in their mind they had developed this idea of the dumper being this perfect person and in reality they have a lot of faults and problems and they are not compatible. seen it happen. consider it a good thing they dont come back
marcjb Posted July 6, 2014 Posted July 6, 2014 (edited) I don't agree about being not compatible. I think that any two people that had a mostly good relationship for at least a year or so are compatible, otherwise it definitely wouldn't have lasted anywhere near that length of time. The only difference between a couple like this and one that stays together is usually one or both people don't want to put in the effort. No relationship is perfect, all lasting relationships take work and effort past the honeymoon phase and some people just don't understand this. Generally people find out if they are compatible or not in the first few dates. If they are not compatible, they never get past that point. Edited July 6, 2014 by marcjb
Ordinaryday Posted July 6, 2014 Posted July 6, 2014 Generally people find out if they are compatible or not in the first few dates. If they are not compatible, they never get past that point. there's an old joke "a woman marries a man thinking she can change him, and a man marries a woman thinking she will never change" and while it is certainly amusing there is some truth to it as well.
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