danny12 Posted July 6, 2014 Posted July 6, 2014 I don't feel that excitment anymore really. I guess that infatuation feeling. Is that normal? When will I know what real love feels like and what does it feel like? I dot know if I feel I now or what? This is the furthest any girl has ever been with me. Previous ones I ended up not be able to Stand because of their personality, I neve even actually got to dating them. We just went out a few times. But this one is different. Jut need some input and guidance as I've never really been in a relationship before. I wanna know what's normal and what's not. Thanks guys
Author danny12 Posted July 6, 2014 Author Posted July 6, 2014 How old are you? Also What is your question? What is normal? I'm 20 Question is: is it normal for tha excitment and infatuation feeling to die down. And when it dies down what am I looking at within the relationship. What would be love, how can I make it stronger. Just basically what is within a relationship at this poit and what is the next step. By normal I mean the most common patterns.
kolleamm Posted July 6, 2014 Posted July 6, 2014 I'm 20 Question is: is it normal for tha excitment and infatuation feeling to die down. And when it dies down what am I looking at within the relationship. What would be love, how can I make it stronger. Just basically what is within a relationship at this poit and what is the next step. By normal I mean the most common patterns. If the "feeling" dies down you are simply not attracted to her anymore. Simple as that. Don't string her along, find someone else. No one deserves to be a silver medal.
Author danny12 Posted July 6, 2014 Author Posted July 6, 2014 If the "feeling" dies down you are simply not attracted to her anymore. Simple as that. Don't string her along, find someone else. No one deserves to be a silver medal. I don't really agree with this actually. Attraction is bound to be lost. I highly doubt my parents are still attracted to each othe. I highly doubt my grandparents are attracted to each other. I thought attraction is romantic love and not true love.
Author danny12 Posted July 6, 2014 Author Posted July 6, 2014 That would be wrong, to leave a girl becaae you don't find her appealing to the eye anymore. I appreciate more tha her looks. As a matter of fact I enjoy hanging out and cuddling and laughing together. I don't cRe if I don't feel like I need to be on top of her all the time. Id rather spend quality time outside of the bedroom more than in te bedroom
Eivuwan Posted July 6, 2014 Posted July 6, 2014 Well the super excited feelings tend to die down after a few months. But if you like her, you should still have nice feelings around her and feel attracted and want to do nice things for her to see her happy.
marcjb Posted July 6, 2014 Posted July 6, 2014 The honey moon phase generally lasts a year to a year and a half. After that, this is where true love should blossom with actions after the infatuation period is over.
Assasda Posted July 6, 2014 Posted July 6, 2014 If its a superficial realationship, and you dont care about her personality and who she is a human being, sure leave her. -But if youre still attracted to who she is, and her personality, you wouldnt be asking this question 1
Leigh 87 Posted July 6, 2014 Posted July 6, 2014 My bf says the infatuation sparks and butterflies haven't died down yet. It's been eight months.
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