emceelaszlo Posted February 19, 2005 Posted February 19, 2005 Hey so heres what happened, There was this girl that i had a really big crush on all throughout her senior year my sophmore. we became really good friends. Isn't being invited to a gradation party mean that?. Anyways @ i had thought about her all summer and a friend of mine just siad go for it before she leaves girls dig a guy who makes the first move. Well i didnt but when she came home from her college break i asked her to dinner and a movie @ the local mall. we saw the movie "SAW". K, so i aint the most expeience dater or move maker but i extended my had to hold hers during the move and she took it . Well we had a nice conversation a good time and told each other we'd chill later on b/c she was home for a while. Well the next week a mutual friend told her that i had feelings for her, so i figured i might as well tell her myslef b/c she already knows. So actually she called and asked if i wanted to come over and watch Lost in Translation, she had just gotten her wisdom teeth out. So after the movie, i was like you know "i didnt ask danielle to tell you i liked u but yeah thats about the size ofit... i really like you", she responded i like hangin out w/ u to. Well from that point in her room it was a little awkard i soon left. We went out to a movie perhaps 2 weeks later, at one point i asked her if she reciprocated my feelings she told me that she had actually gotten back with her old boyfriend from her junior year and that she and i were just friends, i was taken aback but who wouldnt. Well we saw the movie and soon later she left for college. After i told what happened to 2 of my close girls friends they both told me that she led me on and probably liked me but was unsure of what to do. I still really like this girl.. i mean i think about her a lot. i know i have to just forget about it and start with girls my own age but i'm a tad perturbed you know. i wrote her an e-mail about a month after she left and she has neglected to respond, maybe i'm just a drama king or i'm reading too much into things but i would like some other opinions . Thanks
d'Arthez Posted February 19, 2005 Posted February 19, 2005 It sucks to be in this kind of situation. There is nothing much you did wrong, and the question if she led you on is irrelevant. It seems you did some lousy timing; if you had grown the courage to ask her, you would have known earlier. You would not be left out if you had become her bf, or, when she would have chosen her current boyfriend you would not have made such an emotional investment. The point is, she has a boyfriend, and it is not you. If she wanted to be with you, she would be with you. Don't make any excuses why she is with the other guy and not with you. You would only prolong the agony. You need to find closure within yourself, as she cannot give it to you. She has chosen another guy, and although setbacks like this hurt, it is time for you to move on. She will not respond to her emails, so the best thing for you to do is to forget her (No Contact).
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