imgareth Posted July 5, 2014 Posted July 5, 2014 Hi guys. Need some help to find out your opinion on my current situation. Basically, I'm the guy who have always admired her and one day took up the courage to initiate a conversation with her. Hence, for the past few months, we're been texting as well as meetup. Our conversations were rather two way as we both do reciprocate to each other replies. However one day, her replies suddenly took longer than usual and the contents were shorter. There wasn't much enthusiasm (although there were still occasional questions type of conversation made by her). I started to get worried that something was amiss and bothering her, so i made the effort by hinting and asking for an answer. However, she stated that everything was fine and she just didn't want to use her phone that often. Help. Am i thinking too much and should give her more trust in her words? What should my next step be? Does it show that she is no longer interested in me? I was thinking of letting the situation be as of now and see what would develop next. Then ask her out on a date if she agrees and i will know the answer. Thanks for reading and your replies.
longjohn Posted July 5, 2014 Posted July 5, 2014 I'd ask her out, get your answer then and there. If it's not positive or the answer you wanted at least you'll know and be on with your life. We've all been here before at one point or another unfortunately. 2
Versacehottie Posted July 5, 2014 Posted July 5, 2014 i'd say you are taking too long. that's the real reason she is bumping your priority down. man up and good luck 2
starrynightz45 Posted July 5, 2014 Posted July 5, 2014 You've been texting and "meeting up" for the past few months - but have you had a talk about where things are headed? Exclusivity? A relationship? After a few months she's probably frustrated with you not moving things along. She's either lost interest because you haven't stepped up and made it a relationship, or she's pulling back because she thinks you don't want a relationship, but she does. I'd do the same thing. No woman who is looking for a relationship wants to just "hang out" for months on end without establishing anything or having some kind of conversation about it. 1
d0nnivain Posted July 5, 2014 Posted July 5, 2014 You can't judge much by the timing or content of text messages. However, if it's been a few months & you still haven't made a move, she most likely has written you off because she concluded you're not interested. 1
Assasda Posted July 5, 2014 Posted July 5, 2014 You should have already asked her out. But dont put too much pressure on her asking her "What is wrong" and all that crap, that is annoying as hell
Author imgareth Posted July 9, 2014 Author Posted July 9, 2014 Thanks for the advice people. It have made me do some real thinking. The reason for not making a move was due to important exams in the past few month for us. Now that we're ready, I guess it might have been too late. Some mentioned that she probably thinks that I'm not interested. Is there any way to salvage and prove myself? P.S Too bad I got rejected this time that I've asked her out should I wait and try again or tell her everything over phone?
d0nnivain Posted July 9, 2014 Posted July 9, 2014 Call her. Say something along the lines of now that exams are over, grades are posted & it's summer, lets go celebrate. If she says yes, take her on a great date.
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