brandon26003 Posted July 5, 2014 Posted July 5, 2014 (edited) A year and a half ago I met this woman. There is a slight age difference. I am 34 and she is 41. She has 4 kids and just became a grandmother. I have no kids. That time ended with her saying that she really liked me and said that she normally runs when she really starts to like someone. A few months go by and she begins a relationship with someone that women shouldn't like. This guy is a street thug and isn't a positive role-model for kids. Their relationship ended in February of this year. A month ago, she started commenting on almost every facebook post that I made; somewhat in a flirtatious manner. Two weeks ago she texted me and wanted to meet me for drinks so I went. We ended up back at my place later that night/morning and had sex. Since our meeting she has made comments like she really admires how I am with my mother who has been hospitalized for 3 years with a mental illness. Last week she invited me to a local event where I met 2 of her 4 kids. We texted back and forth after the meeting with the kids and she said she would really love to hang out again. Then there were a few instances of her claiming to not receive texts but she would still comment on some of my facebook posts and seemed to take a jealous tone. Now I haven't heard from her in like 4 days. I was thinking of texting her today and asking why I haven't heard from her. I have no problem letting go of things if she gives me a bs excuse. Is she running again like she did over a year ago? Am I overthinking things? Thoughts are appreciated. Edited July 5, 2014 by brandon26003
ktya Posted July 5, 2014 Posted July 5, 2014 She wants a fwb with you, not a relationship. Dont ask her why she has been quiet, ask her when you get to see her again.
Author brandon26003 Posted July 5, 2014 Author Posted July 5, 2014 The last text that I sent her was asking her when we were going to hang again but she has yet to respond. It just seems like a huge game to me. As soon as I sense that women are playing games, I am done. I'm of the old school, hopeless romantic belief that if I like someone, I let them know. I won't play games to figure out someones intentions because I would like the same in return. I always treat others like I would want to be treated. Everyone tells me that if you are truly interested in a woman that I should act like I'm not interested. This is a game and one that I won't play.
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