Pendawn Posted February 19, 2005 Posted February 19, 2005 As I said in another thread I have never actually date anyone in my life (I'm 29) and have been on 2 dates with a guy I really like. I live in the Uk and there isn't QUITE the same dating world as in the US (rarely hear of people casually dating several people and then "going steady"). Anyway I'm finding the whole uncertainty thing totally nerve wracking. I was thinking on date , I would ask what "we" were, ie a fling, casual dating, serious dating, a couple. Do you think that's an okay thing to ask a guy? I just want to know where I stand, I wouldn't mind any answer really just so I know what to expect.
WalkingTall Posted February 19, 2005 Posted February 19, 2005 Depends on how comfortable you are with him. I mean I really don't think that it would be taken wrong if you are about to hop into bed with him. But if it is more of a casual thing, I would wait for a few more dates then just ask how he feels about the time the both of you have spent together. Only you can gauge how far the relationship between the two of you has progressed. If you feel the need to communicate what you feel, then do so. Just don't do it out of the blue, ease into a conversation like that.
inez12 Posted February 19, 2005 Posted February 19, 2005 From what i have heard and experienced that it is much better if you wait and let him lead. Sometimes if you ask to early youll get an answer you dont want to hear. First be fun and mysterious. Also I bet after a couple of more dates you might get your answer without having to ask. He might just come out and say I think we shoudl be exclusive, etc. If by a month( some say to even wait up to 2) and nothing has been said its time you do the talking. Wait it out a bit and see what he offers. If he wants you to be his-- he will have no problem making it known!!
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