TigerLilly78 Posted July 5, 2014 Posted July 5, 2014 I have a ex over seas of all places we lived together for 5 years things just didn't last as a couple for a few reasons we drifted apart. Until I finally left and came back home I was happy to remain friends as friends work for us when I can stand him. But ever since I left hes been calling now I don't mind as I said but lately its getting to be a bit much. Example I was genuinely busy the other day and dude called like 4 times! then there are the awkward conversations how he wants to come over here and visit and so on. Now ive always been nice when that subjects come up and said I would help him how ever I could I know prob not the best idea.. The worst was last week when he dropped the L bomb at the end of the convo just about made my skin crawl oh you miss and love me now? that im thousands of miles and a ocean away? *shakes my head..I guess this is more of a rant for my sanity really. Also another thing is I might be starting a new relationship with in the next few months meeting a long term friend and were going to take things as they go slowely..so im wondering how this obsession from the ex is going to play into that? Hopefully not at all but I cant control how often some one rings my phone well with out changing the number *sigh ok random rant over.. Anyone else ever deal with a bit of an obsessive ex like this? I realy want to be nice and remain friends but I know boundaries are going to have to be drawn at some point..
zen2475 Posted July 5, 2014 Posted July 5, 2014 You can block his calls or set the ring tone for him to silent. He only plays into your life to the extent you allow it.
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