What could be the possible reasons this girl is rude to me all of a sudden?

[Kelly M]

I wouldn't say I am friends with her, but she's a friend of a friend, and she was always smiling at me and more friendly with me, now all of a sudden she's a bitch towards me. She will laugh at some of the things I do, but then she kinda ignores me, and is just different around me now, and I am really nice to her, and I try to make conversation with her, but she just seems like she is kinda forcing herself to say something to me now.

 

There is this guy we all know and she is all over him. He is just friends with her, but she is all over him to the point of desperation, and he has shown interest in me. On Facebook a while back he was joking and saying he was going to marry me, but he only did that once. I am wondering if she doesn't like me because of that? Because of him showing interest in me? I don't know if he said something to her? Cause ever since he did that joke, she has brought his name around me, and talking about him, and saying how he invited her up to his camp, and basically rubbing it in my face that they are close friends. I could be wrong, but she almost said it to make a point they are close. She didn't bring him up before, so I found that odd.

 

She said it in a very facetious way. She said it almost like they are so close, and it seemed like she was rubbing it in my face, and really I don't care how close they are cause he is not a love interest. But why do you think she is rude to me? Nothing bad happened to her recently in her life, so I know that's not it. She is only like this with me. Could it be that he said something to her about me? Or that Facebook post? It was a while ago though, like back in January. What do you think? I need opinions! lol.. Thank you so much!

Edited July 5, 2014 by Kelly M

[AnneT1985]

It could be that this guy likes you and she is having an issue with that. Whatever the case, it is her issue and not yours, unless you directly did something to her so I wouldn't be concerned. Let her deal with it. Best of luck! xx

[preraph]

Oh, yeah, she sees you as a rival because she knows he likes you. It's good you don't have any interest in him. If I were you, rather than let her think she somehow "beat" you and got the guy, I'd tell her right up front that he was flirty and he's nice for a friend but that you were never interested in him romantically and that will 1) calm her down and maybe you keep a friendship if you want one and 2) let her know she's not rubbing anything in your face because you don't give a damn.