385 Posted July 5, 2014 Posted July 5, 2014 Hello, I've been considering doing this since I don't have a good friend that I'd like to go to the bar with and meet girls. I want to approach girls with my own style and some friends take the conversation to places I don't want it to go. Other friends either give off the wrong vibe/style or whatever. Anyways, I was wondering on what is your perception of guys that go to bars alone to meet girls? Thanks!
ASG Posted July 5, 2014 Posted July 5, 2014 Hello, I've been considering doing this since I don't have a good friend that I'd like to go to the bar with and meet girls. I want to approach girls with my own style and some friends take the conversation to places I don't want it to go. Other friends either give off the wrong vibe/style or whatever. Anyways, I was wondering on what is your perception of guys that go to bars alone to meet girls? Thanks! I don't have a particular opinion... But, as a girl, if I'm with friends (and it's very unusual that I'm out on my own, though it has happened), I am very unlikely to engage in conversation with random strangers. Mainly because it becomes obvious he's trying to pull and when I'm with friends I'm usually not up for "being pulled". But if you don't try it, you'll never know!
Joaquin Posted July 5, 2014 Posted July 5, 2014 Often times guys start chatting to girls when their mates are off chatting to other girls, or in the loo, smoking or whatever. Effectively they are on their own when they start talking to a girl. Nothing wrong with going to a bar alone.
d0nnivain Posted July 5, 2014 Posted July 5, 2014 I doubt I'd even notice that you didn't have buddies in the bar.
Mo_Do Posted July 5, 2014 Posted July 5, 2014 I wouldn't suggest doing it - women in groups are hard enough to counter when you are in a group, let alone just you vs them. I went to what I thought was a small pub alone a couple months ago. I had to pay a cover, then entered a packed bar. I was like "what am I doing". I had a few beers and left. Flip side, went back with a buddy a few weeks ago and tore it up chatting to women - so there's my experience with it
Assasda Posted July 5, 2014 Posted July 5, 2014 Hello, I've been considering doing this since I don't have a good friend that I'd like to go to the bar with and meet girls. I want to approach girls with my own style and some friends take the conversation to places I don't want it to go. Other friends either give off the wrong vibe/style or whatever. Anyways, I was wondering on what is your perception of guys that go to bars alone to meet girls? Thanks! Go for it man. If anything it will build your confidence up. I used to go to bars by myself, you just have to be open to all different situations, and if you go to talk to girls you'll probably have to talk to their friends too. You'll probably meet guys at the bars/clubs that are doing the exact same thing that youre doing, then you'll have friends lol -I know
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