GF went to live abroad, then she broke up with me.

[ThePeruvian]

Ive been with this girl for 8 years. She had to move abroad with her family and she got a return ticket for last june. We were planning to get married in July so she can pass the greencard to me.

 

But her greencard didnt arrive on time and she had to pospone her return. I have never been a jealous or controlling person, Ive always gave her space but since I had a lot of personal problems at home I started acting insecure and needy. She also told me that I needed to get money for our wedding and all the stuff from the greencard but since i was too depressed for my stuff, i didnt do anything. She finally gave up and stopped asking me to get a job or do anything about it.

 

Obviously she got tired of it. At first she asked me for time but I just continued with the same ****. At the end, she broke up with me via skype.

 

We are not the kind of couple that breaks up for stupid things. In all these 8 years, we only had 3 serious break ups including this one. Its been 2 weeks since then, at first I was like confused, then I got desperate but tried my best to not make it too obvious. Sometimes I would surrender to my emotions and just tell her that I love her and miss her.

 

She says she loves me, but that she isnt missing me anymore. So I just stopped talking to her, and she did the same. Im worried because her ticket expires on january 2015 so its possible that shes coming back before that date but I dont know exactly when.

 

Im trying to make a better man of myself, working out, I got a job, etc. I really miss her, I really wanted to get married to her and have a family.

 

I dont know if it would be possible to get together again, but I stated her that I dont want her as a friend even though she told me that friendship is all she can give to me now.

 

What should I do? Is there any possibillity that when she comes back she realizes that Im better at that point? I mean, its been 8 years... and Im pretty sure shes not dating someone else, but I fear she will in the future.