LiveLoveLaugh Posted February 19, 2005 Posted February 19, 2005 I met a "nice guy" or so he kept preaching to me for a month. How he was the guy all the girls end up wanting to talk about their other guys to, how he was too nice, just a boring writer from a small town, blah, blah, blah. Told me "you are so beautiful, where did you come from, I can't believe I met you when I thought for sure my New Years Eve would be a joke., Yeah right. After a few dates, and yes, stupid sex, he just disappeared! Not even an excuse for not being around on Valentines! We agreed that a LDR -3 hrs- would be hard, but not that hard as we both have kids every other week and we do not date during that time. He e-mailed and texted every day, told me he wanted to take me on a vegas vacation, also teach me to ski, all kinds of thing that kept me interested, made me think that I have been looking at the wrong guys.. Well after he got sex, gone. Next morning he said he had to go home to take his kid because the ex had plans and he "forgot" he agreed to it. We were supposed to go to a party that nigght, but, ok, he has obligations, whatever. Said he couldn't wait to see me again, then he just tapered off his contact. Not a word in 2 weeks. I feel so stupid and angry at myself! Especially since he was not my type at all. I wasn't even attracted to him. His friend introduced us because we were both third wheels at the club and they though I was cute. And I was thinking, I don't know, but everyone has been telling me "go for a nice guy, quit basing things on looks and physical attraction, those guys just want some from you!" So I did. Well, apparently so did he. I'm disgusted. I'll take a looker who just says straight up, "I think you are hot, I want to F you, but I can't make any commitments right now!" to a phony nice guy any day. At least it is honest and I have the whole picture so I don't feel so duped! . In fact I met one in FL last week, gorgeous male model, flirted all night, kissed a couple times, but I was with my boss. Hmm, too bad. I will never trust a guy who tells me too many times what a nice guy he is cause if he is trying to convince me, he must be trying to convince himself as well. I think men just suck. Yeha, I'm venting.
Devildog Posted February 19, 2005 Posted February 19, 2005 If someone says anything about themselves too much, don't believe it. Actions speak louder than words and real nice guys show it rather than brag about it.
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