mortensorchid Posted July 5, 2014 Posted July 5, 2014 I connected with this man on POF. He seems like an ok guy, the little I know about him. We exchanged a few text messages here and there, today (well now yesterday) July 4th, I sent a text asking how he was and what he had planned. He said he took his son to the beach, now at his mom's house and having a family party / BBQ. I said sounded like a good time, but did not continue to text as I didn't want to interrupt his plans. Later that day I got another text from a number I didn't know. I opened it to find this photo of this man with his arms around another woman. You could tell by the photo that they were bf/gf, or at the very least intimate in a non brother / sister kind of way. It was sent to several numbers that I didn't know, and on the thread others were saying "Oh you two look so cute!", "You make such a nice couple!", etc. My Lord ... Talk about a big mistake. What do I do now?
Elle1975 Posted July 5, 2014 Posted July 5, 2014 Wait for the next text and answer that you thought he was single? Weird though
marcjb Posted July 5, 2014 Posted July 5, 2014 Reply back to the group text saying that the photo looks nice, he should use it for his POF profile pic... 2
Miss Awesome Posted July 5, 2014 Posted July 5, 2014 Delete his number. Or keep it for a bit so that you know to avoid messages from him. You don't sound very interested in him ("he seems like an ok guy") or very involved with him ("we exchanged a few text messages"), so there's no need to do anything except disengage.
Author mortensorchid Posted July 5, 2014 Author Posted July 5, 2014 I haven't heard from him today. I am not about to reach out to him either. The whole thing strikes me as very strange. I'm sure it was a mistake that this was sent to me, but it would be even more of a mistake if I commented back at him and caused a problem. I'll just let it be.
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