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If you invited a friend to a show and they bitched all night, would that offend you?


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I invited my friend to a concert and throughout the night she complained and bitched about how hot it was, how much the singer sucked, how much the singer sounded like a girl, etc, etc. And she had this pissed off/butt-face look on her face the entire time. I just thought it was damn rude. I was there to enjoy a show and she kind of ruined it for me. Am I being too sensitive or should I be pissed at her and not even talk to her anymore?

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maybe she had a bad day ....be understanding and let it go even if i t was annoying we all annoy others at times...forgive her and move on....deb

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I'd be annoyed (not quite pissed) and probably not initiate chatting (but talk if she initiates) with her for a while. And I certainly wouldn't extend any more invites to her. Find a friend who can be gracious about it.

 

I wouldn't cut her off completely; give her time to chill. Maybe she's having hot flashes!

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Don't invite anywhere else. If she asks why, tell the last time she came out, she didn't seem too happy. Real simple

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Well at least she'd be the last person I'd invite for a long time.

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Maybe something more is going on with her and instead of never speaking to her again, sit down and ask her if something is bothering her and let her know you are there to listen and offer support.

 

Is she just a 'random' friend or someone you care about?

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Maybe something more is going on with her and instead of never speaking to her again, sit down and ask her if something is bothering her and let her know you are there to listen and offer support.

 

Is she just a 'random' friend or someone you care about?

 

There's nothing going on with her, and she's a close friend, I just don't appreciate her giving me that look like she wanted to beat the hell out of me. If she didn't want to go, why go? She knew what kind of music it was. Never again, will I invite her ass anywhere.

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I invited my friend to a concert and throughout the night she complained and bitched about how hot it was, how much the singer sucked, how much the singer sounded like a girl, etc, etc. And she had this pissed off/butt-face look on her face the entire time. I just thought it was damn rude. I was there to enjoy a show and she kind of ruined it for me. Am I being too sensitive or should I be pissed at her and not even talk to her anymore?

 

Just stop going out with her and let her approach you next time. If she asks why you are avoiding her, let her know that you find she is negative and complains a lot. give her some examples from the concert and how she missed out on a great time because she was too busy complaining about stupid stuff.

 

she has to learn to suck it up and shut up!

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I don't understand the logic in snubbing and/or acting pissed off with someone without discussion. I would personally tell her upfront how disappointed I was, and that her behaviour on the night lessened my enjoyment. If she's a true friend, she'll take the feedback and have the discourse with you about why/what happened.

 

I'm kinda curious as to why you invited her in the first place. Did you not have any idea that it wasn't her type of thing?

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I invited my friend to a concert and throughout the night she complained and bitched about how hot it was, how much the singer sucked, how much the singer sounded like a girl, etc, etc. And she had this pissed off/butt-face look on her face the entire time. I just thought it was damn rude. I was there to enjoy a show and she kind of ruined it for me. Am I being too sensitive or should I be pissed at her and not even talk to her anymore?

 

I think it was very rude of her and I would be pissed too.

 

But I'm not sure it was friendship-ending rude, unless you weren't particularly good friends to begin with. Can you ask her what was going on with her that night, and why she was being such a pain? I think it's reasonable to tell her it upset you.

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I think it was very rude of her and I would be pissed too.

 

But I'm not sure it was friendship-ending rude, unless you weren't particularly good friends to begin with. Can you ask her what was going on with her that night, and why she was being such a pain? I think it's reasonable to tell her it upset you.

 

 

We've been good friends during high school, I think she might of had some grudge towards me, since we got into 2 fights, maybe that will explain her behavior. She did take me back, but our friendship was kind of effy, but that's a whole different story...

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Though it sounds like classic passive aggressive behavior on her part because she didn't want to go, never talking to her again seems rather extreme. Perhaps tell her how you felt and why and see how she responds.

 

I invited my friend to a concert and throughout the night she complained and bitched about how hot it was, how much the singer sucked, how much the singer sounded like a girl, etc, etc. And she had this pissed off/butt-face look on her face the entire time. I just thought it was damn rude. I was there to enjoy a show and she kind of ruined it for me. Am I being too sensitive or should I be pissed at her and not even talk to her anymore?
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