Should this bother me?

[StillHurtin]

H started a new job 3 weeks ago. He has to go to training next week an hour and half away. There is female co-worker that was told that she is to ride w/ H to the training. I am assuming so they don't have to spend more $ for mileage. I am not worried about H doing anything b/c I have met this woman, she is around 50 or 55 (H is 37). She is an average woman her age, she isn't some hot 50 yo. I guess if H had to go w/ female co-worker I am glad it's her and not some good lookin, hot woman. There is still a little trust issue. It's not so much trusting H, it's trusting other women around him. I have seen too many women flirt w/ him, I have heard about so many women flirting w/ him. At first I didn't think too much about women flirting w/ him. Now that H has actually had an A w/ one of these women that flirted w/ him I NEVER want another woman to flirt w/ him again, ever, whether she is 20 or 50.

Yes, it bothers me that he has to ride alone w/ this woman and I really don't know why b/c I know he wouldn't do anything w/ her. I just find it really stupid on the companies part to allow this. What if she fasely accusses H of sexual harrassment so she can sue the company (or him) for making them travel alone together? It bothers me, should it?

[tanbark813]

It makes perfect sense why it would bother you. Unless they're taking a company car, I don't see how they can require them to ride together. What do they care who rides with whom?

[StillHurtin]

Thanks tanbark. I just spoke to my mom and asked her if she knew this woman. She told me that she use to be our next door neighbor when we moved into town. I don't remember what she looked like as I was 13 when we lived there. She said that she is a very nice person and I have no worries. Not that H would do anything w/ a 50-55 yo woman. He sunk low enough to have an A w/ the OW, he wouldn't have an A w/ someone who is old enough to be his mom.