squid1 Posted July 4, 2014 Posted July 4, 2014 A girl who knew me from my school years starting talking to me one day, she moved house and as a consequence she lives an hour and a half away from me. She really loved talking to me for a long time & would communicate through video chat. When I asked her to go on a date, she became a little shy but really enthusiastic at the same time. She said she really wants to like me and wanted to think about it, she seemed quite scared. Around a month later, I asked her again, as she was giving me affection and became closer, and then she sent a blunt message saying no, she can't do it, and explained when we are older, we will meet somebody who will also make us happy. I know it's only short, but why would somebody do this? What would make someone change their mind? It appeared immature and was in fact very hurtful. She isn't in a relationship with somebody else, but I'm a little suspicious about it. Was she scared? A fake? It's weird.
Assasda Posted July 4, 2014 Posted July 4, 2014 She doesnt like you because you have no self worth. You, asked her the first time, and she basically said no. Then you asked her again - Now you get it. Now you want to be her therapist, thinking if she is with someone or not. Who cares, she not into YOU. And for good reason too. Work on your self worth
Easyguy14 Posted July 4, 2014 Posted July 4, 2014 She doesnt like you because you have no self worth. You, asked her the first time, and she basically said no. Then you asked her again - Now you get it. Now you want to be her therapist, thinking if she is with someone or not. Who cares, she not into YOU. And for good reason too. Work on your self worth I didn't see anything said poster mentioned that made him look worthless or needing improvement on self worth. I took what said woman did as playing games and being indecisive.
Author squid1 Posted July 4, 2014 Author Posted July 4, 2014 She doesnt like you because you have no self worth. You, asked her the first time, and she basically said no. Then you asked her again - Now you get it. Now you want to be her therapist, thinking if she is with someone or not. Who cares, she not into YOU. And for good reason too. Work on your self worth I'm not sure how this shows I need to improve my self worth, where exactly does this show? She loved talking to me and gave me affection, as did I to her. That's just a false assumption. Also, think about what you say before you message it. 'And for good reason too.' Maybe you can improve your attitude
Author squid1 Posted July 4, 2014 Author Posted July 4, 2014 I didn't see anything said poster mentioned that made him look worthless or needing improvement on self worth. I took what said woman did as playing games and being indecisive. Thank you, she appears to be like this. I mean, she was always talking to me
Assasda Posted July 4, 2014 Posted July 4, 2014 I'm not sure how this shows I need to improve my self worth, where exactly does this show? She loved talking to me and gave me affection, as did I to her. That's just a false assumption. Also, think about what you say before you message it. 'And for good reason too.' Maybe you can improve your attitude You put her on the pedestal. You asked her out. She turned you down. Then you asked her out again. She WAS decisive the first time. Then the second time, she said, "If this guy cares so little about himself, why should I care about him" then she flat out told you no. -If she asked you out, and you told her you'd think about it, you think she'd ask you again. - Again I say, have some self worth
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