Rexxy Posted July 4, 2014 Posted July 4, 2014 I'm taking a girl out this upcoming weekend, I only met her a week ago and have been talking a lot over facebook. I asked her if she would like to go out on the weekend, she said yes then I said "we'll go have dinner in the city and go from there". I don't usually take girls out on dates because I'm use to one night stands, but it's time to start dating. What in the world do I do after we have finished dinner? I'm thinking go for a walk around the city, get a bit physical, kiss her etc Then when I drop her off either get myself invited in or drop her off with a final kiss to keep her guessing what my intentions are. My intentions are to start dating btw. I'll most likely be driving her there.
PegNosePete Posted July 4, 2014 Posted July 4, 2014 Going for a walk sounds good. Or a drink. Don't over-plan the kissing etc....... just take it as it comes. keep her guessing what my intentions are. My intentions are to start dating btw. Then keeping her guessing is probably not a good idea. Don't play these stupid games. They may work for PUA but is real life dating they will simply lose you dates. If you want to see her again then let her know, in fact plan the next date, or at least plant the seeds (general idea/date) before the end of this one.
somecamel Posted July 4, 2014 Posted July 4, 2014 I'm taking a girl out this upcoming weekend, I only met her a week ago and have been talking a lot over facebook. I asked her if she would like to go out on the weekend, she said yes then I said "we'll go have dinner in the city and go from there". I don't usually take girls out on dates because I'm use to one night stands, but it's time to start dating. What in the world do I do after we have finished dinner? I'm thinking go for a walk around the city, get a bit physical, kiss her etc Then when I drop her off either get myself invited in or drop her off with a final kiss to keep her guessing what my intentions are. My intentions are to start dating btw. I'll most likely be driving her there. I wouldn't rush the sex if you want to date. I think most girls go on the third date rule:P
Assasda Posted July 4, 2014 Posted July 4, 2014 I suggest, you take her to your place after dinner, Then walk around the city, She'll get more comfortable with you How can someone be used to one night stands. One night stands are the worst. Its a good thing that youre not trying to do that anymore
Author Rexxy Posted July 5, 2014 Author Posted July 5, 2014 Going for a walk sounds good. Or a drink. Don't over-plan the kissing etc....... just take it as it comes. Then keeping her guessing is probably not a good idea. Don't play these stupid games. They may work for PUA but is real life dating they will simply lose you dates. If you want to see her again then let her know, in fact plan the next date, or at least plant the seeds (general idea/date) before the end of this one. I like the idea of planning a next date before the end, thanks!
Author Rexxy Posted July 5, 2014 Author Posted July 5, 2014 I wouldn't rush the sex if you want to date. I think most girls go on the third date rule:P We'll see what happens haha
Author Rexxy Posted July 5, 2014 Author Posted July 5, 2014 I suggest, you take her to your place after dinner, Then walk around the city, She'll get more comfortable with you How can someone be used to one night stands. One night stands are the worst. Its a good thing that youre not trying to do that anymore Yeah one night stands are the worse, but it took me a while to realize that. I want to move on from that pointless sh*t. I live 40 mins away from the city, it's just a really nice place to have dinner there, plenty of things to do aswell.
deathandtaxes Posted July 5, 2014 Posted July 5, 2014 Nothing has to happen after dinner. dinner is fine for a first date. set up the next if you wish, and just call it a night.
Author Rexxy Posted July 6, 2014 Author Posted July 6, 2014 The date went really well. We had dinner at a really nice restaurant, after a few hours there we went for a walk along the wharf and came across a strike bowling bar which is open till early morning. We had a game of bowling and had a really nice kiss after she ended up beating me haha. Then we met up with some of her friends at a club and stayed there till around 3am, I was sober the entire time. After that, I drove her home and made out with her for a pretty long period of time, she left and I went home. I think it was good that I didn't go into hers because I can really feel the sexual tension between us now.
Versacehottie Posted July 6, 2014 Posted July 6, 2014 Yeah one night stands are the worse, but it took me a while to realize that. I want to move on from that pointless sh*t. You're learning Rexxy...i like it:D
ktya Posted July 6, 2014 Posted July 6, 2014 I'm taking a girl out this upcoming weekend, I only met her a week ago and have been talking a lot over facebook. I asked her if she would like to go out on the weekend, she said yes then I said "we'll go have dinner in the city and go from there". I don't usually take girls out on dates because I'm use to one night stands, but it's time to start dating. What in the world do I do after we have finished dinner? I'm thinking go for a walk around the city, get a bit physical, kiss her etc Then when I drop her off either get myself invited in or drop her off with a final kiss to keep her guessing what my intentions are. My intentions are to start dating btw. I'll most likely be driving her there. Do the same thing you do on one night stands, seems to have worked for you. Just call them the next day and show them that you want to stick around. Works for me.
Author Rexxy Posted July 6, 2014 Author Posted July 6, 2014 You're learning Rexxy...i like it:D Thankyou Versachottie, you've helped me quite a bit with the progress and I really appreciate it. I just need to work on my nerves a bit because I got lost for words sometimes and the conversation died down. I think I need to stick to doing fun things like the bowling, because I don't really enjoy talking all that much but I'm a very good listener.
Author Rexxy Posted July 6, 2014 Author Posted July 6, 2014 Do the same thing you do on one night stands, seems to have worked for you. Just call them the next day and show them that you want to stick around. Works for me. I'll call her in the next few days and organize another date. I think I'm only good at getting one night stands when I've had a bit to drink, I tend to be a lot more relaxed and just a lot smoother overall, whilst feeling like I have a lot more fun. I need to adapt that behavior while been sober and I'll be golden.
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