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There is this girl that I know from about 4-5 years ago that I recently got back into contact with via FB. We didn't date or anything back then, rather I was friends with her ex and she and my best friend were flirting with each other (after they split) , but we all hung out a few times back then. I had a crush on her then, and still kind of do now. I don't even know if she remembers me that well since we never got too close.

 

Now I'm not the shy type, and I have no problem approaching or talking to women. This situation, however, leave me rather unsure of what to do since its FB and I have motives. I already tried engaging her in conversation, and we did for a few messages but she was at work and it didn't go for more than 6 replies. My first inclination is to just ask her out for coffee to catch up since its been so long. However, I just don't want to come across as that creepy internet stalker dude. Maybe I'm just being paranoid cause she's super gorgeous and I know I have motives. Thoughts?

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Sounds like you have zero chance of anything with her. It sounds like to me she's just being nice.

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