gizmo1818 Posted July 4, 2014 Posted July 4, 2014 Hey all, So I met this girl on Match a few weeks ago. We went out for drinks last week and went to the zoo yesterday, both dates lasting 3-4 hours. Everything went pretty well. At the end of the second date she told me to let her know about going out next week as we had talked about going to a baseball game. So I texted her today about going to one on Tuesday and she asked if we could re-schedule and then I think she invited me to a concert with her on Thursday? She is new in town and I had mentioned these free concerts they have at a bar district there is in town. So after asking if we could re-schedule going to the game she told me she was actually going to the concert I had told her about and said we could meet up at the concert if I wanted. She's going with her best friend(roommate) and maybe a couple other friends. I told her I would definitely come, but I'm not sure how long I should hang out. Does this sound like I should just go have a quick drink and leave or was this an invite to hang out the whole time? I have no problem meeting new people, I just don't want to intrude on a girls night thing as I'll probably go by myself after I get off work to meet up with her. On date one she wouldn't let me pay for her and told me her mom raised her to be independent. On the second date I tried to kiss her and she gave me a kiss on the cheek instead and told me not yet. Both times I played it cool as I'm pretty laid-back. So this whole meeting her friends on date 3(maybe?) kind of threw me for a loop because I thought she was wanting to take it slow. Any thoughts on the situation? Am I on the fast track to the friend-zone? I tend to over-analyze things so maybe I'm making something out of nothing.
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