bohica Posted July 3, 2014 Posted July 3, 2014 Hello Just curious what others think and what my next play is.... I went out with this girl last Saturday night. We had a really great time. We laughed and had great conversation. We had a lot of Chemistry, got along great and even had a really great kiss at the end of the night. The next day (Sunday) she told me via text that she had a really great time and she thought I was a lot of fun to be with. I responded by letting her know I had a great time too. Two days later I sent her another text to say hi and to ask if she enjoyed an event she was going to Sunday. She never responded and I still haven't heard back. I'm really surprised because we were both really happy at how things went and the kiss was a 10. Any thoughts from women and what if any kind of move should I make next? Thank you.
Gaeta Posted July 3, 2014 Posted July 3, 2014 She probably has other prospects with whom she had an equal good time. You're not going to win a woman by chit-chatting over text. You should have booked a second date right away with her when you parted after your first date or the following day when she said she had a great time. Your next move it to give her a call, not a text, a call ! and invite her out. If she doesn't answer then leave a message to call you back. Don't leave any space for misunderstanding. If after that you don't hear from her then she is not interested. 1
Author bohica Posted July 3, 2014 Author Posted July 3, 2014 You should have booked a second date right away with her when you parted after your first date or the following day when she said she had a great time. Didnt want to seem too anxious....
starrynightz45 Posted July 3, 2014 Posted July 3, 2014 Didnt want to seem too anxious.... The next day is not too anxious.
Diezel Posted July 3, 2014 Posted July 3, 2014 Make no moves next. She's either dead or not interested, and in either case, she's not getting back to you anyway. Sure, PEOPLE will say they had a great time, but that's being polite via text. Maybe you were #3 in a list of 5 prospects... who knows? Doesn't matter. ONTO THE NEXT ONE.
Gaeta Posted July 3, 2014 Posted July 3, 2014 Make no moves next. She's either dead or not interested, and in either case, she's not getting back to you anyway. Sure, PEOPLE will say they had a great time, but that's being polite via text. Maybe you were #3 in a list of 5 prospects... who knows? Doesn't matter. ONTO THE NEXT ONE. Yes maybe he was number 3 on that list and number 1 and 2 turned out to be morons. OP give her a last call. You have nothing to lose. 1
Assasda Posted July 3, 2014 Posted July 3, 2014 Hello Just curious what others think and what my next play is.... I went out with this girl last Saturday night. We had a really great time. We laughed and had great conversation. We had a lot of Chemistry, got along great and even had a really great kiss at the end of the night. The next day (Sunday) she told me via text that she had a really great time and she thought I was a lot of fun to be with. I responded by letting her know I had a great time too. Two days later I sent her another text to say hi and to ask if she enjoyed an event she was going to Sunday. She never responded and I still haven't heard back. I'm really surprised because we were both really happy at how things went and the kiss was a 10. Any thoughts from women and what if any kind of move should I make next? Thank you. I think sending her the first text asking how the event went was a bad idea. I say you call her, and set up a time to go out. If she cant go out with you, tell her to call you when she wants to go out and have fun. Then dont look back
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