ashleepq Posted July 3, 2014 Posted July 3, 2014 So I met this guy at the bar. He is stunningly handsome. Much better looking than I am. We went out on Friday, and had an amazing time. We went out again on Tuesday. We've been talking sooo much. He seemed to have liked me A LOT, for some reason. Unfortunately, on Tuesday, I got quite drunk. We were having a great time, until he mentioned his neighbor, who is a girl. So we were drunkenly talking about how much we wanted to have sex with each other and how we should probably wait; then I said we can go back to your place and hang out. He then told me he doesn't want to bring me home because she might see me and he doesn't know how THAT would go. So here I am, thinking this guy likes me, that we have a great thing going, and here he goes, mentioning some other girl and how he doesn't want her to see me because of jealousy or some other crap. So, I cried. I was drunk, and I couldn't help it; I cried. Just because I was upset and disappointed. I said I didn't want to hang out with anyone who has people on the side. He said I was being crazy...of course. Guys love to say that. Was I being irrational by being so upset?
haribogumsnickers Posted July 3, 2014 Posted July 3, 2014 His neighbor is his wife so he is a douche. You are crazy for crying and don't give me that you were drunk as an excuse. Get it together girl. You're better than him even if he is hawt. I'm free tonight btw and my neighbor is my mom. 2
Michelle ma Belle Posted July 3, 2014 Posted July 3, 2014 I vote BOTH! He's obviously a douche for not only talking about another woman while out with you but then using her as an excuse NOT to bring you around. Red flag. You're also crazy for not only getting stupid drunk on a date with a man you hardly know but especially for pushing the "let's hang out at your place and pretend like we're not going to f*ck" line WHILE you're three sheets to the wind. All it spells is Klass with a capital "K" in my books. If I were you, I'd look at it as a blessing in disguise. On the flipside, get your sh*t together and refrain from turning into a lush on dates with men who haven't been properly qualified. 1
Diezel Posted July 3, 2014 Posted July 3, 2014 In before she claims she really meant she JUST wanted to hang out and nothing else.
Zahara Posted July 3, 2014 Posted July 3, 2014 Second date and got drunk and cried about some other woman. I won't call you crazy but you certainly acted irrational and emotionally unstable. Screams clingy and desperate. As for him, I wouldn't pursue this anymore because it doesn't look like you may have a keeper on your hands. "He is stunningly handsome. Much better looking than I am." Don't get so caught up with his looks. By that statement you've already downgraded yourself in your mind and put him on a pedestal. And that can put you in a very weak position. 1
Baller25 Posted July 3, 2014 Posted July 3, 2014 You should have asked if you could have just sneaked in, maybe through the back entrance.
Assasda Posted July 3, 2014 Posted July 3, 2014 I think he put his foot in his mouth. Not what you want to hear at that time. Is this neighbor his roommate? Does he live with her? His neighbor is his mom?
Assasda Posted July 3, 2014 Posted July 3, 2014 You know what. He was probably being subtle and didnt want to sleep with you on the 2nd date in 4 days. Kudos to him 2
Baller25 Posted July 3, 2014 Posted July 3, 2014 You know what. He was probably being subtle and didnt want to sleep with you on the 2nd date in 4 days. Kudos to him No no. I think he wanted to date a girl in a lower league to get some guaranteed pussy, easy and quick, but is romantically interested in his neighbour. It's like when your really into a girl but you know that it's going to take a while to get her, so you fool around with the fat chick till then but keep it private so the main girl still thinks your single. Don't some women do this as well?
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