yummehcheese Posted July 3, 2014 Posted July 3, 2014 So, I met this girl a couple months back, and pretty soon, I developed feelings for her. We would text everyday, she was flirty, she'd call, and basically showed signals of liking me through text. Then, we met and hung out at this local event. Things went really well, and there were a lot of sweet moments. A stranger would think we were a couple by how we acted. So I was even more sure that she was interested. However, she kinda backed off the past couple weeks. We talk less, we see eachother less and conversation is kinda weird. We hung out again yesterday, and she seemed very friendly, albeit shy, but there was none of the sweet stuff like at our previous hang out. Anyway. For a while, she's kept asking me who I fancy, so I confessed my feelings to her, and she didn't say how she feels about me. It was literally just along the lines of "I didn't even realise!", "How was it obvious?!" And stuff like that. I played it cool, and acted casual, not getting serious. She changed the subject and kept talking though. About other stuff. But a couple hours later, she gets back to me and asks why I like her. So I write out a heartfelt essay pretty much about why I like her, and she was so happy. She was flattered, playful, and still friendly. Things never got weird and she was totally cool with what I had to say. Appreciative even, she loved what I said. So my question is, is she interested? And what does it mean when a girl doesn't say if she likes you or not?
SmartDude Posted July 3, 2014 Posted July 3, 2014 Lots of possibilities... The first one that comes to mind is that she feels warmly enough towards you to care. She is not sure of her direction and so is really trying to be careful to not hurt you should it not work out. This sounds good. What your describing is almost as good as it gets as far as getting a green light.
haribogumsnickers Posted July 3, 2014 Posted July 3, 2014 Nevermind if she's interested. Just focus on having fun together and getting to know her better as a friend first. Leave the feelings out for now. Those will come eventually and make sure she reciprocates your feelings later. Too soon now but just be cool. Don't write another essay though. She might just like being pampered by your lovey doveyness.
Author yummehcheese Posted July 3, 2014 Author Posted July 3, 2014 Lots of possibilities... The first one that comes to mind is that she feels warmly enough towards you to care. She is not sure of her direction and so is really trying to be careful to not hurt you should it not work out. This sounds good. What your describing is almost as good as it gets as far as getting a green light. At first, I did think there was definitely something between us, but after she backed off, I didn't think she was interested at all. But what you've said has made me feel a lot better, thanks! Nevermind if she's interested. Just focus on having fun together and getting to know her better as a friend first. Leave the feelings out for now. Those will come eventually and make sure she reciprocates your feelings later. Too soon now but just be cool. Don't write another essay though. She might just like being pampered by your lovey doveyness. We're already pretty decent friends. We've spoken a whole lot, we've spent time together, and she trusts me with her secrets and details about personal life. I was planning on building a better bond, but she's the kind of girl that gets a lot of male attention, so I wanted to act quickly... But we're seeing eachother again soon, hopefully heading to the fair to spend time together, alone. Have you even kissed this girl? No. Nothing like that yet.
Diezel Posted July 3, 2014 Posted July 3, 2014 Next time you go out with her, remember to take your testicles with you and be a man... kiss her, do something, anything, because this just sounds like another journal entry from the Friendzone.
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