FrostBlaze Posted July 3, 2014 Posted July 3, 2014 So me and this girl have been talking, flirting and even got touchy for some time now. We spend a lot of time toghether, and she often calls or sends me "i miss you" messages and kisses when i am at work or gone for quite some time. So as we we're playing and flirting, i felt the love from her (i think). So i kinda said it, that she's making me feel awkward, i think i might actually like you, etc. She just kinda brushed that off and went silent for a bit so i left it there. The other day she was all over me again. But she avoids talking to me about these feelings or what we are doing so i can label it...this is stuff a couple does, i'm not here to try and fill in some void. SO what's going on, what can i do? Why won't she talk about it...
Diezel Posted July 3, 2014 Posted July 3, 2014 Have you asked her out? Gone out on a date with her? Have you kissed her? Or was that message sent from the deepest and darkest corners of the Zone of Friends?
Author FrostBlaze Posted July 3, 2014 Author Posted July 3, 2014 Have you asked her out? Gone out on a date with her? Have you kissed her? Or was that message sent from the deepest and darkest corners of the Zone of Friends? Yes and yes. So she keeps flirting, playing games, inviting me over than changing her mind, no other dates so far, but won't label any of this or say anything in terms of feelings. First i thought she just wants me to f her, but she ussually ends up chickening out and canceling the "invites" to her house.
PegNosePete Posted July 3, 2014 Posted July 3, 2014 Don't play these stupid games with her. If she can't say what she wants then just move on. She's attention seeking and you're playing right into her hands. 1
Assasda Posted July 3, 2014 Posted July 3, 2014 Youre the one pushing her away, with your Pressure "I think I might like yous" What is she supposed to say? I cant understand, why guys feel like they need to verbalize their feelings. This is not a romantic comedy... You are lucky that her attraction for you is strong, or she probably wouldnt even hang around. Stop with all your nonsense, if you like her, show her you like her, and take her out and have fun with her And stop all of this label crap that you see on TV
Author FrostBlaze Posted July 3, 2014 Author Posted July 3, 2014 WHat f'ing pressure if i just want to know what's up in her head? I don't care about the label, but i'm not here to just be one of her FWB's. We date, we kiss, we hang out almost each day, but she won't really show much affection or feelings, except for flirting and trying to get me in her bed. Well sorry i don't work like that. Plus i am sure she is flirting with some other blokes anyway, so i don't see the problem if i want her to be clear. I think you're wrong, i agree with what Peg said however.
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