Broof Posted July 3, 2014 Posted July 3, 2014 If she misbehaves or gives attitude, like rolling her eyes at me or acting stuck up, and I call her out on it, she'll start acting flirty and shy, with a sexual vibe (things like arching her back and looking up at me, or adjusting her pants and turning around to look at me). I thought I was seeing things, but I noticed it happening repeatedly. Why would she act more flirty and sexual after I call her out when she's acting bratty? She's hot but a lot of people think she acts pretty condescending and don't really care for her. I'm just wondering why a girl would act like that at all, then acts flirty when a guy is blunt and calls her out on it.
Andy_K Posted July 3, 2014 Posted July 3, 2014 Normal for an immature hot girl. She's probably perfect PUA fodder. 4
PegNosePete Posted July 3, 2014 Posted July 3, 2014 LOL yes what Andy said. If you'd posted this on a PUA forum you'd get a lot of responses telling you to neg her, do some kino, she's got her BS up, bla bla. Seems like she's following one of their scripts to the letter.
kaylan Posted July 3, 2014 Posted July 3, 2014 No big deal. Me and my ex had intense chemistry due to all the witty banter and ball busting. It originally started as genuine dislike for one another with an underlying attraction. I was really new to me at the time. God I miss that. Shes the only girl who could keep up with me with regards to jokes and intellect at the same time. We were very much on the same wave-length. I miss that feeling. Its been a while. She didnt take my sh!!t and I didnt take hers. Was real fun in the beginning. Just enjoy it for what it is OP. 1
Lernaean_Hydra Posted July 3, 2014 Posted July 3, 2014 Um.....ok, I've never had to ask this before but is your name Ryan? I'm only asking because I have a tendency to not only act like this around a certain guy but also be considered condescending and a flirt at times. Anyway, since I'm fairly certain you're not him I'll just offer you some (what I think is) helpful information. A) this girl is a tease and a flirt who has no qualms about playing the role of coquette in order to get out of being called on her s**t. And will also use her sexuality to distract you out of your better judgement. B) she'll probably sleep with you and has likely already made up her mind to do so, if you would only take action and stop taking her ridiculous behavior so personally. C) Girls who act like that are often not very well liked by the general public largely because they represent all the things about young females that are almost universally hated between the sexes....however, public opinion of a girl like that is irrelevant.
kaylan Posted July 3, 2014 Posted July 3, 2014 A lot of women still like to be put in their place. And I know the perfect place too. I kid, I kid. xD 1
Lernaean_Hydra Posted July 3, 2014 Posted July 3, 2014 A lot of women still like to be put in their place. It might sound silly but honestly, I have a tendency do this but only with a certain guy because I want need him to sort of take the lead and/or put his foot down. I like to see just how far out of hand I can get before he steps up to the plate. Childish? Eh, I'm sure, but all part of the gradual building of sexual tension among a certain segment of the population. 1
kaylan Posted July 3, 2014 Posted July 3, 2014 (edited) It might sound silly but honestly, I have a tendency do this but only with a certain guy because I want need him to sort of take the lead and/or put his foot down. I like to see just how far out of hand I can get before he steps up to the plate. Childish? Eh, I'm sure, but all part of the gradual building of sexual tension among a certain segment of the population. Youre the kind of woman that keeps PUA sites and manosphere blogs going lol. And I mean that in all seriousness. They actually instruct men to take girls who behave that way less seriously because usually women like that are immature and play games. I cant disagree. If a girl seems too out of hand or annoying, Ill relegate her to FB zone, or just stop talking to her. So be careful with this little "I wanna see how far I can push this guy before he says something" tactic. Thats what I think of when a girl outright admits to purposefully planning to act out of hand. And trust me...childish behavior doesnt make a lot of guys think relationship material. Edited July 3, 2014 by kaylan 1
regine_phalange Posted July 3, 2014 Posted July 3, 2014 If she misbehaves or gives attitude, like rolling her eyes at me or acting stuck up, and I call her out on it, she'll start acting flirty and shy, with a sexual vibe (things like arching her back and looking up at me, or adjusting her pants and turning around to look at me). I thought I was seeing things, but I noticed it happening repeatedly. Why would she act more flirty and sexual after I call her out when she's acting bratty? She's hot but a lot of people think she acts pretty condescending and don't really care for her. I'm just wondering why a girl would act like that at all, then acts flirty when a guy is blunt and calls her out on it. Because deep inside she knows that she misbehaves, and when you call her out on it, she is reminded that you have boundaries and a strong personality. And who isn't attracted to a strong personaity? 1
Lernaean_Hydra Posted July 3, 2014 Posted July 3, 2014 Youre the kind of woman that keeps PUA sites and manosphere blogs going lol. And I mean that in all seriousness. They actually instruct men to take girls who behave that way less seriously because usually women like that are immature and play games. I cant disagree. If a girl seems too out of hand or annoying, Ill relegate her to FB zone, or just stop talking to her. So be careful with this little "I wanna see how far I can push this guy before he says something" tactic. Thats what I think of when a girl outright admits to purposefully planning to act out of hand. And trust me...childish behavior doesnt make a lot of guys think relationship material. Tbh, I had that same thought the other day. In that same vein, to be fair, this particular guy is equally as childish and my behavior is fueled by his. I'm early 20s so I'm not exactly looking to be "relationship material" anyway.
gaius Posted July 3, 2014 Posted July 3, 2014 Youre the kind of woman that keeps PUA sites and manosphere blogs going lol. And I mean that in all seriousness. They actually instruct men to take girls who behave that way less seriously because usually women like that are immature and play games. I cant disagree. If a girl seems too out of hand or annoying, Ill relegate her to FB zone, or just stop talking to her. So be careful with this little "I wanna see how far I can push this guy before he says something" tactic. Thats what I think of when a girl outright admits to purposefully planning to act out of hand. And trust me...childish behavior doesnt make a lot of guys think relationship material. You want to disqualify all the girls that like you enough to test you like that? =/
regine_phalange Posted July 3, 2014 Posted July 3, 2014 And I know the perfect place too. I kid, I kid. xD Wow. This awakened the helpless housewife in me. What a gorgeous kitchen 1
gaius Posted July 3, 2014 Posted July 3, 2014 I had a girlfriend like that. "No, I'm not going to pick you up from the airport like I said I would after you just spent 8 hours delayed." "How could you take me to see this movie after I told you I didn't like it but agreed anyway?" There was nothing hotter than the way she could get my blood boiling and the aftermath of wrestling her back into place. For both of us. PUA don't know what they're missing. 1
kaylan Posted July 3, 2014 Posted July 3, 2014 You want to disqualify all the girls that like you enough to test you like that? =/ Meh, Ive dealt with women like that. Its annoying and they are usually very very immature.
Author Broof Posted July 3, 2014 Author Posted July 3, 2014 (edited) She seems intelligent and goal-driven but she's also stunning. Maybe if a guy isn't intimidated by her it provides some challenge and excitement, and if he can handle her he's probably successful himself. Edited July 3, 2014 by Broof
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